Don't back away from it!
Hot and witty sex columnist = ka ching! I'll draw up the contracts and take only a small fee.
LOL! I'd completely clam up and get writer's block if I knew that people I knew could read what I wrote. I'm only capable of this level of openness when I feel the safety of anonymity.
I did once have an anonymous blog, and it was a lot funnier than the one I have here and just a
little too honest. TheBF and I went out to dinner with a bunch of TheBF's old college friends, and one of them told a story about being out with some other college friends and some friends they have that we don't know and one of them starting talking about a hilarious blog that he had been reading, when TheBF's friends realized that it was MY blog because the story was the same one that I had told them. Instead of keeping their mouths shut about figuring out who was the author of this funny anonymous blog, they told everyone. They're very nice people, but they obviously didn't understand that the concept of
anonymity means that if you figure out who an anonymous blogger is, you should probably
ask that blogger if you mind being outed before telling everyone, "Oh, that's TheBF's girlfriend!" (which they did at least twice that we know of before they ever told us about finding my blog) so that lots of people we know or who might just know about us can go and read about a lot of exploits and experiences that I never intended any of them knowing about. :redface:
I made that blog private and not long after that I got so self-conscious that I stopped writing it. I naively assumed that the internet was large enough that no one I knew would ever run across that blog or recognize me.
That experience is the reason why my LPSG blog is only accessible to my LPSG friends.
Actually, they make us wear flat shoes.. I didnt ask about boots though Petite.. I put the heels on to be pleasing towards the eye. Trust me, I know long 8 hr shifts... and as comfortable as I am in the big girl shoes.. fuck no to heels all night. When i go go i get HORRIBLE blisters!
I'll talk to my manager about boots!
That's cool that you're required to wear flat shoes! I think I was required to wear heels, but I could wear my sexy high heeled "combat" boots which made it a lot easier. The owner of that place was a real jackass and a chauvinistic jerk. He'd make all the cocktail waitresses wait until all the bartenders got their share of the tips before he would pay any of the cocktail waitresses. He made it a point every single night to make sure that we knew that he considered us a lot less important than the men who worked there, because he was a major asshole. All the men he hired were all buff, all hot, and they got a gym membership when they were hired there as a bartender and they were required to work out and be muscular. The cocktail waitresses he treated like dirt. That guy had major issues, and if I wasn't in college and I really needed the money, I'd have given in to my impulse to kick him in the balls at least once.
Nudeyorker is right. Make sure that you don't feel like you belong there because it's just a stepping stone for you, a way for you to move up in the world. Don't let it touch you and it won't.