You said: "We all deal with loss in our way. I've lost my entire family over the past 7 years, and my mom's death in 2018 really hit me hard for a long time."I'm not making excuses. I'm responding to a particularly callous comment you made that his mother would want him to post.
I cannot read anything but excuses for Cody's failure to post content.
If he's having a bad time, he should take a leave from Onlyfans and refund his subscribers. The terms of service did not grant him unpaid sick leave.