My, aren't we lofty today? Imposing your worldview as that which is correct and implying those that are different to be wrong. Well, let's talk about a few things here.
1. You are a woman on a site called the Large Penis Support Group. Madame, since you've proclaimed yourself a mother, I can assume with relative safety that you have a vagina. So. You have neither a large penis nor a need for support regarding one. Why are you here?
2. You claim to have no problem with butt plugs and chained up balls. Great! However, your moral crusade is against adults...who admire other legal adults...who happen to look young. And somehow that automatically makes them socially and morally suspect? You seem to be implying that people who think the twins are hot are automatically prone to pedophilia. That's a -huge- step. Eighteen-year-olds are legal, regardless of how young or old they look.
3. This leads me to my third point. If you're so bent out of shape about older men liking 18 year old guys, then I can assume you also don't approve of Hugh Hefner and his girlfriends several decades his junior? Or Anna Nicole and her octogenarian husband? Same principle darling. And furthermore, what about these screaming, 30-something Twilight moms getting in a tizzy over Taylor Lautner? He still has a very boyish face and he's just eighteen. Either you agree or disagree; there are no exceptions.
4. Finally, I do understand your argument. I see where you're coming from, and I've tried to be objective. Dylan and Cole do look young. Not my taste, really at all. But the fact is they're legal. That's it.
But one last, subjective point. What bothers me most is your assumed moral superiority. I'm gay. The gay community has been called immoral, sexually deviant, and rife with pedophilia by countless groups and individuals. And to be honest, we're really sick of it. So please, unless your argument is airtight, keep your morals to yourself.