Well I was going to cover all of what Seaside said!
Do any of you who attacked her even know her? Read her posts? Exchanged Visitor Messages? PM's? Anything?! If you had you would realize how pro gay and gay friendly she is.
If this thread had been a few years back, during the whole Olsen twin countdown fiasco, I am sure that she would have been just as creeped out regarding people drooling over them for the length of time they were just waiting for them to be legal.
Also she said already that it is fine for those of you who were closer in age to the Sprouse twins. I get the feeling that she shares my view that you probably had a crush on them as they grew up on screen. Many people, male, female, straight and gay do this. Hell the TV execs are banking on it. What she was pointing out is that unless you are within that range, it is creeptastic to think of some 40 year old guy (and I am sure she means women to, but other then her I don't recall any other gals posting here, so she may have just simplified it) lusting over kids, just waiting for them to be legal so they can legitimately have sex with them.
Add to the fact that the Spouse twins still look 14 at best and I am sure that you can see where her concern comes in.
Yes she may have stepped in it a bit with the Taylor Lautner analogy, but maybe I can shed some light on this (Seaside, feel free to correct any assumptions on my part). Taylor looks like he is in his twenties at least. Late teen face but definitely adult body. When all the hype for him came out in New Moon he was what, 17 and a half? Most people had no clue as to who he was, and didn't fallow his maturity on screen.
Contrast that with Dylan and Cole. They started when they were what, 10? Seaside is a mom who has a son who watches (or watched) the show. She has seen these kids from kids to barley adult (still looking like kids and playing underage on TV) and so to hear guys saying they are finally 18 leads her to the uneasy thought that these dudes have been drooling over then since they started out. Again thats fine if you are in there age group. And no we shouldn't discriminate against younger looking 18 year olds (I was one and was attracted to older guys) but for those older dudes who have been following the twins' progress with baited breath, hell even I go to a mental image of them wanking it to the early "Suite Life of Zack and Cody"! That's disturbing.
Getting back to T.L. I saw him in New Moon. I had no idea of his age or who he was. A bit later my niece was watching "Sharkboy and Lava Girl" and said "Hey it's the guy from New Moon!" Seeing him as a child then didn't creep me out. It was more like when you get to know someone as an adult and then their family shows you baby pictures. You aren't lusting over the baby, obviously, but the guy you met as an adult.
Yes maybe it is a fine blurry line between the two examples. Perhaps it is a double standard. But can you see where she is coming from? To attack her was uncalled for, and ridiculous. Grow up people.
As for the "Your a woman you don't belong here" garbage...oh where to start! You say that this site is not meant for her? Yet the founder of the site has a whole forum specifically for women! It's conveniently labeled "Women's Issues"! Gasp! In fact it is right below this very forum! OMG!!!
You see, not every guy here is gay. It may come as a shock but straight guys have big dicks too! Now if they are having trouble with having comfortable and satisfying sex with there women, who should they ask? Should they ask other guys who don't know what it is like first hand to accommodate a large cock (and don't compare anal to vaginal, as I will just have to beat you down with your own stupidity. The two orifices are quite different. I can give advice on what it is like to receive but I still don't have a vag so my advice can only go so far). A whole site of big dicked guys who have problems with sex so great that they need support, and not a one who can give first hand info that could help. Talk about the blind leading the blind!
Remember that "Support" can be interpreted to men owners of large penises who are having difficulties and need support, as well as recipients of large penises who are trying to overcome things to enable better sexual relationships with their partners. Petite springs to mind; she came here because she was having trouble accommodating her BF cock.
The same can be said for Gay bottoms. Unless you are saying that only big dicked bottoms can participate? I have heard so much misinformation and bad advice given from Straight guys and Gay tops (and here I am referring to tops who define themselves as strictly tops) regarding how to have sex that it would make your head spin. So unless you want a bunch of people exchanging bad advice and continuing to have problems with there partners, all the while bitching about how it is the partners fault and blaming them, then start your own group and enjoy the cluster fuck that would result from that.
Now yes in the case of gay tops who never bottom, there are those who are great at having sex and working with their partners to make sex enjoyable (Bbucko springs to mind). Just as there are Straight guys who have loads of info regarding making sex with women enjoyable for them (RawDog pops into my head). But they are giving you feedback that they got from their bottoms/women. Why wouldn't you want to encourage the two groups to be able to speak for themselves? In fact Bbucko and RawDog routinely speak with both of these groups and always seem to enjoy the input form them. Just as I enjoy their input,
Think of it: An exchange of ideas and experiences for the mutual benefit and betterment of all parties. Now that is what support should be.