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Hey look, I agree with you guys 100% that changing under a towel is ridiculous. I wouldn't have cared being naked in front of him, but shyness won out and no one made that first step.

Yes, it's a sad reality that my generation has grown up in a time of such embarrassment of the male body, but until that changes, the "towel dance" is going to continue.

Yes, theguy87, I totally agree. That changing-under-the-towel business is ridiculous. You don't have to parade around nude in your room 24/7, but unless you are extremely ashamed of your own body, for whatever reason, there's nothing wrong with dropping the towel to put on your underwear.

I think guys these days are way too self-conscious about their bodies. We've all got the same junk! No need to put it on public display, but also no need to go to ridiculous lengths to hide it, because you might be embarrassed if your roommie sees your dick. Chances are you both will look pretty much exactly the same anyways!

Well, I think that men should respect the men that don't want to change in front of men.
There are men who can't handle men having erections in front of them. So maybe there is a reason behind every action. I don't want to make anyone feel bad. If a guy wants his privacy...I respect that. Man, not everyone has the perfect cock. And it is easy for a well-endowed guy to say/dictate wanting communal showers. And men being who they are will joke about a guy's junk. Men are competitive like that.

I personally like the shower stalls. I can shower and not worry about looking at a guy and finding him hot and getting a hard-on.
 

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Everyone has been right on. I'm going into my Junior Year of College, and have experienced a wide array of people. It's best to study as soon as you get assignments. Don't push it off. In the end you'll pay for it. Always study first. Then go out and have fun. Be open to everything. Make sure to keep time for yourself though so that you can think about what to do, and make sure you listen to yourself and that intution. Be open minded, but don't let other people decide for you.

And with that, I hope you have a great college life. Live it to the limit, and do your best on all fronts. It's going to be a good time in your life.

Oh, and about sex. Don't let it rule you. There will be a lot of girls ready and willing. Take it when you can. Do not, under any circumstances, have sex without a condom until you get to know the girl...and just about meet her parents. There is a lot of STDS, and the percentage of pregenacy out there that will ruin the whole experience. Be wary of that crap. Know how serious that is. But dont let it hinder you from sex.

I've denied sex on one occasion and I still sort of dread it to this day. It wasn't that long ago...but still.
 
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learn your alcohl limits. don't do 21 shots for your 21st birthday. blacking out drunk is SO not fun. alcohol and coke will kill your erections, weed might not. depends on the person. don't fuck random people without a condom, dummy. be friendly and personable the first few weeks, but remember that everyone is trying to make friends, and your best friend for the first 3 days probably won't, and shouldn't be for the rest of the year. i never had a roomate, so i could jack off whenever i wanted! umm...idk im going into senior year myself, and still don't have shit figured out. don't take the brown acid?
 

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I started in June and it's not that bad. Me and my roommate are pretty tight, we hit it off from the first week and we're pledging the same fraternity. We were pretty much up-front about the jacking off and clothing part, I brought it up and was basically like obviously we both jack off, if I'm in the room it doesn't bother me if you do it, if it bothers you if I jack off with you in here, that's cool I'll either go to the shower or you can leave for a few minutes. He was cool with that and the way we stand now is we jack off with each other in the room but dont join in with one another and don't watch each other, a glance is cool but not a stare haha.

For sex, we agreed to leave the room if its during the day and the other has somebody over, but if its late at night, whoever isn't getting the action just rolls the other way and goes back to sleep.

As for the clothes part its okay to wear briefs or boxers in the room, and dropping the towel to put on underwear is fine, but sitting around naked isn't.

I think its all about being open about everything, don't be afraid to bring it up, if you're afraid, odds are he just is too.

This is what I agree with!
 

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Lock the door when you have a BF/GF over or even just jack off. I will always remember telling a friend that I would come to his room and go to dinner together. I knocked and then opened the door only to see him naked and humping a pillow on the floor. Must have been at just the right moment as he did not respond. I shut the door, went to my room, then called him to see if he was ready. I think that was more embarrassing than catching roommates with girlfriends going at it. Although there was the time when I caught a guy with his girlfriend in the communal shower!
 

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hey all,

so in about 2 weeks i will be heading off to be a freshman in college. i was just looking for some tips about showers,
Clean your feet well, you wouldn't believe the things you can catch...

Buy condoms.

drinking,
Don't. All the same if you must be with a group, create limitations and adhere to them, and do not drink anything you did not make yourself in highly public areas.

jerking off,
You'll learn. :/

It's expensive for the fetishes you enjoy.

please state your age when you respond and your current level in high school or college if applicable...

thanks! :smile:
I refuse.
 

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If you don't have a strong interest in a specific area of study or career field, don't go to college. It will be a waste of time. It's WAY too difficult, time consuming, and most importantly expensive to go grasping for straws or take on a, "I'll get gen eds out of the way while thinking of what I might want to do" type of attitude. Take some time to actually form some idea of what you want to do or think you'd be good at, then go.

Unless of course you're the genius type or the strong intellectual type that will love damn near anything and everything school related. Those types of people do well no matter what.
 

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Thanks all for the tips and whatnot; I also just started college. The first week of it just ended.

I haven't jacked off once since getting here, which was on the 20th, and I'm trying to see if I can go without any orgasm until it's given to me by a girl.

Though, that has yet to happen at any point in my life.

Still being hopeful.
 

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I really don't recomment playiing hard to get with yourself. It's not healthy.
Dave

Yes you would really hate to have a build up that instantly explodes all over your girl or guy the first second they touch it!!!
 

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My freshman year, my roomate and I did not get along. It wasn't any one thing, he was inconsiderate of my stuff and was always in the room. We stopped talking around October and basically ignored each other after that.

Fortunately we had suitemates and I got along fine with them.

I had two younger brothers, so I would change in the room whenever I wanted and no issues with nudity. He always changed in the bathroom.

He never had any girlfriends over, and mine only visited occasionally, so we would wait for him to go to sleep. Second semester my boyfriend had a private room, so I spent a lot of time there.

I'm 33.
 

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I agree with most of the advice above. Don't bitch out and shower in the stall - or, God forbid, do the shorts-in-the-shower thing. That's a big neon sign that says "I have pencil dick."

As for sex, strap your shit up. Just do it. You know you should already. Don't sleep with anyone on the same floor as you.

Drinking? Limit it to one day a week. Seriously, it's expensive, it's messy, and it's not conducive to the very reason you're in school in the first place. You know...learning shit.

Jerking off? Make an agreement with your roommate. Whatever's good for the two of you. If you don't have a roommate (I didn't), do whatever you feel like.

Porn? Be considerate. Don't pretend like your roommate won't know what you're watching. Don't watch anything revolting. Nothing's worse than a roommate who's in to donkey porn.

Most of all, enjoy university. It's not like anything else you'll ever experience. In a good way.
 

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Everybody on here seems to classify roommate sex as fantasy, and I agree that you shouldn't go into a situation looking for that to happen. But in my case, a college roomie was my introduction to gay sex. He was the initiator (it definitely would not have happened if left up to me). We jacked off together all the time, gave each other hand jobs, took showers together, sometimes slept naked in the same bed, and would even cream each other's ass cheeks (dry humping without insertion). I agree this won't happen for 99% of the guys you find out there, but I guess I was the lucky one percent.
 

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ok....21 yr old female. School is a totally new experience and you'll love the freedom. Don't get too outta hand though cause your grades will slip. College girls at parties aren't as they seem in movies. You've probably seen a collegefuckfest video or two. Its not like that at all. There is underage drinking though. You pay 3 bucks to get into a party and there's the keg. If youre looking for someone to fuck i suggest you start looking as soon as u get there. The more girlfriends we make the more females we have to discuss about relationships and guys. Single one out but please leave the corny jokes at home. Maybe you might see a girl in the cafeteria or library. These are nice places and we think more of a guy if he's not approaching us at a party with a red solo cup filled with beer in his hand. You'll have to get adjusted to getting dressed with someone you dont know in the room. He probably won't come on to you. If you can't find a girl then I recomend a fleshlight. It does a guy wonders....really. Make sure u get enough sleep though. Teachers aren't fond of students dozing in class. Make guy friends. Get involved in stuff even if its intraumaral (sorry for the spelling) sports. You'll be fine. Before you know it you'll know tons of people. Just make sure to erase every college movie you've seen from your head before you go.

Anything else u wanna know....just ask me
 
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wow thnx for all the advice i was having this same prob starting collage in Spring
 

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Thanks all for the tips and whatnot; I also just started college. The first week of it just ended.

I haven't jacked off once since getting here, which was on the 20th, and I'm trying to see if I can go without any orgasm until it's given to me by a girl.

Though, that has yet to happen at any point in my life.

Still being hopeful.

Masturbation is a healthy outlet for your sexual urges... Don't deny yourself the pleasure. What's to say you go the who school year without a date? You are going to be one on edge fuck with a load so built up in his balls that you'll go crazy (okay, the crazy part is a bit of over kill, but you get my point).
It's one thing not to have the opportunity (roommate), but it's another to wait for no reason other than you hope a girl is going to help you out. Think of it this way, it's just like in that movie "Something About Mary". Who's to say that your 1st date in months doesn't end in disaster because you blasted off in 30 seconds. Do you want to be known around campus as the guy with the hair trigger? Remember Jason Biggs in American Pie, Just getting started and Oops?