Come on, size isnt that important

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by D_aco04hcx, Aug 15, 2005.

  1. D_aco04hcx

    D_aco04hcx New Member

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    i'm not really the one who should belong to this website, i'm within avarage (i hope), i'm like in between 6 1/2 and 7 by 5 1/2 so, not really well endowed.
    i met a girl not too long ago and we had sex, it wasn't special, i mean, i was really tired and was hard to keep a less then decent erection, so, for me was a nice experience but i don't think it was the best one for her to be enterteined by a semi hard avarage cock and a close to fall asleep guy like me...
    the fact is that she liked it so much that she asks me to repeat and repeat and repeat
    i think that the way one uses his own instrument is a good supply to lack of size, also, we have other weapons that girls appreciate, i maybe use those, the fact is that now, even watching at movies where the smallest dick isn't less than 8" i feel much more confortable with my tiny one.
    a kiss to all of the girls of the forum

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  2. Imported

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    7x5.5: While I am not here cause I have a big dick (I originally came for sex info), I am around your size and there is no way I'd ever consider myself tiny haha! Tiny is a pretty strong adjective, I really don't think anyone over 4" can consider themselves that!
     
  3. madame_zora

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    Well hell no, that's not tiny, or even small! Besides- whatever size you may be, the best sex is about performance, and connection between partners. We've all had those lovers who we just mesh with so well, that's a thing to be treasured and only in rare circumstances is it related to size much at all. Many, many things arouse a woman (or a man for that matter, but I'm no expert on that). Being a great kisser goes a long way with me. I can have sex with a lousy kisser as long as he stops kissing me when I turn my head! Eww, I hate having a guy ram his teeth into my lips and think that counts as passionate kissing! The ability to laugh during sex is highly underrated, if the mood is light and fun, then builds as the act unfolds, that's my favorite way to go. If we end up cracking jokes all the way through, that's great too. Having a partner who is truly interested in MY pleasure as well as his own makes for a good lover. Believe it or not, this one simple thing is the deal breaker. A man of any size CAN be attentive, so just DO IT, dammit! Giovanni, it sounds like you know the way to this woman's heart, and her bed, so just emjoy the wonderful things life affords!
     
  4. D_aco04hcx

    D_aco04hcx New Member

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    that's what i think Zora! there are so many things one carries in his bed besides a big or small dick, it's up to you to know how to use them.
    my goal is her satisfaction not mine, i can work on mine by myself and in many cases it's even better... it sure is the best when it happens to both of the people in the same bed and it the same moment but if you know how to stimulate her, how to make her feel unique and desired you did 90% of the job.
    for sure a big cock looks attractive, but most for your male/gay friends than for girls, they don't ask you to pull down your underwear before coming out with you...
    in my case this girl is going nuts even if i'm not mandingo or like all of the guys partecipating in this forum but the one thing i do is to pay her a lot of attention and not just fucking her like an animal.
    man's role is different than what we see in porn movies, i bet that only 10 years ago when the internet wasn't like it is now, the expectations for cock size were different and with a 6 incher one could feel confident, now it seems that 8 is avarage ;( and 10 is good, guys, was it really like that i would better cut mine and change sexual behaviors!!!
    bye all guys and have a better life with what you had been given.
    hey, don't forget, if you find a good recepie to add one more inch i would be happy, 7 1/2 is better than 6 1/2 ;-)

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    The best sex is when the woman really relax and feel comfortable with the situation. I think that happend to you.
     
  6. jonb

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    Basically, while size does matter, the most important thing to sex is technique. Believe it or not, if you have a big dick, but you just put it in, wiggle it around for a couple minutes, and that's it, that's not good sex.
     
  7. jdoe86

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    I've been with a lot of partners (male and female) who says "size does matter". In fact, a few years ago, I had an ad in a local swinger's magazine. Along with my pic (soft) I had the headline of "Size does Matter". That pic generated 20 partners in one month (most were couples with the male who was "average"). But, having a big penis desn't make up for not knowing how to use it. One girlfriend loved my oral skills so much, we spent most of our time in the 69 position.
     
  8. D_aco04hcx

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    that's more, as far as i think, for the curiosity to see/use a big one, then, a normal one can do the same job as a big one...
    however i repeat, if you have a good recepie to achieve one more inch let me know, i would be happy so that wintertime when i need to pee while on the road i can see it showing up from down my chlotes :) :) :)
     
  9. madame_zora

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    You know, I've thought about this quite a lot, and here's my personal opinion. Larger endowed guys ARE going to find more women for whom size matters! When you're advertising your size, women who are into that will find you. That is in no way a random sample of the general population. Most women don't watch porn (sorry, sad but true). Most women don't think nearly as much about cock size as men. Most women are far more obsessed with how you'll feel about OUR bodies than how we'll feel about yours. ALL people obsess about themselves, I think if guys realised this they'd worry less. If you knew that the woman you were about to have sex with was mortified to think you might see her stretch marks or cellulite, and that she had never even given your cock a thought, you might not worry so much about getting naked in front of her. Most women just want to see you naked- think of it like this, when you undress a woman, are you really hoping her pussy lips are shaped a certain way? NO! You just want in! We're the same way, more often than not, we want to have sex- we're not sitting there with our fingers crossed hoping for the big one!

    As I've said many times before, the extremely small number of women on this site support my claims. If penis size were in fact of primary importance to all or most women, we'd be flooded with them here- it just isn't the case.
     
  10. Knight

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    Well I think that most girls, until they have a large penis are oblivious and are happy with an average sized penis, as they should be. However, I think once a girl has a large one, and has a good experience, she will prefer that. Maybe not seek it out but she will prefer it. Perhaps a bad experience with an LP would turn her back to the 'averageside'.

    Only evidence I myself have for this is that the ex, after sleeping around with a few people, tells me 'I didn't enjoy it' and that 'there was somethin there' when we had sex. I was tempted to say 'what? a big dick?' but I didn't...And so she wants me but she can't have me...Of course it could be that she actually has some emotional attachment to me but I doubt it.
     
  11. BobLeeSwagger

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    I hope that eventually you realize that anecdotal evidence isn't worth a whole lot.
     
  12. madame_zora

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    Well, I wouldn't automatically assume it was just your dick's size she preferred. She may have liked a lot of things about the way you "did it" that fit well with her. You may have been more attractive to her than some of her other lovers. There could be a lot of reasons, but from what I remember, she was a psychotic bitch to you, so she's probably just messin' with your head trying to get you back so she can weird out on you again.
     
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    For one- my woman says size Matters... if it's too small, it matters... if it's too big, it matters (as a possible bad experience)! But mostly, if it's used WRONG, it matters.

    I, for one agree - size matters; and I'll defend my extra inches rather than be averaged out. ;-)

    Just get yourselves (both partners, I mean) to relax, enjoy, and get the motions right... if you do all that, size doesn't matter... or at least, not so much!
     
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