I work out seriously, about 5 x per week. When i wear a jock or briefs under my shorts i get ugly looks or giggles from people. I think my bulge looks like an erection to them. If I go commando you see movement down low and the head. Boxers feel clingy and bunchy and don't really hide anything. I prefer commando, but I don't really want to offend anyone. What should I do?