comfortable showing cock but not rest of body?

Discussion in 'Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues' started by slayer04, Nov 8, 2006.

  1. slayer04

    slayer04 New Member

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    Does anyone feel uncomfortable showing their chest or other body parts but not their cock? I prefer wearing a shirt and no pants myself.
     
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    I think I'd feel fine about showing that cock, too. Wow. Your body seems fine in your photos, however.
     
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    thanks...i think id be more comfortable with it if i had better pecs and abs...the usual i guess lol
     
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    Having looked at your gallery, I doubt anyone will be looking at your chest or abs.:wink:
     
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    So what's the deal? Are you ashamed of something? From the looks of things you shouldn't have any problems, but I haven't seem the top of your body yet.... I personally don't mind showing my bare chest or any thing else for that matter... as long as I'm in the right place. I'd rather show my top part than my dick in almost any forum. I'm not really shy, but am modest and always have been. In the locker room, pool, beach or backyard, who cares.
     
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    not ashamed i guess because i have no problem going shirtless at the beach, pool, or sauna, but when it comes down to relaxin i like to have a shirt on... and im real confident in my cock...also im real pale and that dont make muscles look to good. ill upload some body shots for you guys.
     
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    Just peeked at your pics... and had a question. I've noticed that a lot of guy here shave everything:biggrin1: . What's up with that? Otherwise my only comment would be to get some sun on the upper parts. O personally don't mind hanging out at home in front of my wife, neighbors or friend without a shirt. But, I get a lot of sun so I stay pretty brown.
     
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    irish...we are immune to tanning...and its real hard in the fall winter season as there is no sun to absorb...as for the shaving...the girls around here prefer it and i find it keeps the smell down...i have a real powerful cock smell...although ive never had a full bush...ive trimmed since ived grown...i tried lettin it grow out and i noticed the smell...kind of weird
     
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    Okay, thats a fair explanation on shaving. I was just wondering... I don't have that sort of an issue. Personally, my wife likes the bushy bush I've got and its kind of fun when she plays around with it:biggrin1: . Otherwise if you don't mind me asking, how often do you shave down there and how? Otherwise, for you, I guess it's a great idea!
     
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    i trim once every 2-3 weeks...i dont use a razor and i always leave some hair
     
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    I was about to ask the same. I seemed to get a little darker as I got older, but I was white as a ghost once. :eek: Casper boy!

    I've done a little runway and some catalog (more catalog) and I've seen a lot of so-called perfect bods, and I think your pecs are alright. I think you've got a better build than a lot of guys I've worked with. All you need is some nautilus on your back and shoulders if you still hate your pecs so much -it'll pull it all tighter together. Routine crunches for that tummy and :smile: you rock.

    Best advice -turn off your fucking TV and :mad: throw out all your magazines. Half that shit aint even real and you're making yourself crazy by comparing yourself to these guys. Models and actors are not normal people!

    Unless you're ready to suck up to a lot of evil, sick fucking people, spend all day sitting on the toilet until your butthole is raw, starve yourself to death and workout until you need viagra to fuck your gf, don't envy models.

    I really wouldn't be hiding if i were you, and I'm serious. You've got a solid build -athletic and strong. Its a good build dude!
     
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    I understand the senitment you're getting at slayer. The first couple of people I chatted with here asked me for some body shots and I was like, "no, it's really not that nice, just keep looking at the cock." I mean, I'm certainly not fat or obese, but I remember being in better shape and I'd rather not broadcast a less-fit version of myself.
     
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    Theorically, i feel less uncomfortable when my penis is exposed than when my shoulders/ass or other body parts are.

    The reason may be that my penis is the only part of my body that is "more" than others have, i mean, i am very skinny, not sure an athletic type.

    However, because of culture and good sense, my penis is less exposed than almost any other part of my body.
     
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    Hi Guys,

    I am new here and dont know is how this stands this discussion. Well I go to an university and look quite young for my age can pass as high school kid. I stand around 5'6" and am around 115-120lbs (quite thin) but am 7.5 - 8" long (it varies a bit) x almost 6".
    I am not as uncomfortable as people around me make it all the time. I also feel quite sad about the trend as I during my high school and undergrad whch I spent mostly in dorms and hostels. I had girls reject me cos. of physique and looks like that of a kid (though they find it cute) but if they knew about my size they sould sleep with me. Somtimes with the first impression guys trying to bully and I mostly opt to walk out or avoid which make me look even more like a "sissy" but I am called crazy and wild most of the time later on. Once they get to know me and eventualy if not like me atleast respect me or fear me. Infact I have guys and other colleagues who even tease me in the parties and other get togeathers called me sissy and weakling etc. but they are well aware that I have bedded their gfs or wives and still cant say a thing. The only reason I need to do is just to put things as to let them know physque is not the only thing and one needs to respect people, and actually I never enjoy doing it this way. Also with girls more or less are like size queens but dont want to be at times seen with me except in private where they pamper me a lot (which I actually love) but at the same time I lose respect and faith for them. Eg: My previous girlfriend was almost 5'11" and left me because of physical looks but to a 6'2" guy whom she finds nice. But still comes to have sex with me and tells me I was more compassionate when we were to gether and would like to come back. Well now I am careerwise quite successful and at times I feel cheated as I had no one stand by me during my stuggle and depression.
    That is more I mean is people are taking physical life so seriously. I feel a spouse is more like a companion and share everything, and accepting it like a coin with both sides (virtues and defeciency) and completing each other. And I find most of the people looking for financial comfort from on one, physical from other and for emotional from some Mr. Nice guy who would be there when one feels like crying but does not even get a mercy fuck forget even a real friend or a spouse to listen to him. I mentioned Nice guy as I was one and you can guess how much i got laid or heard then.

    I dont know where the above things stand or its just fustration, but my point is more than being comfortable, its more how people around that makes you feel so.
     
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    I was for a long time ashamed of my body. From a young age I had lots of admirers of my cock. Once the word got out about my cock I was always dating very attractive women but all there ex's would always be these enormous jocks. I think at that age girls didn't realize that big arms don't make for a big cock...

    It wasn't until after college that I started to realize that a lot of girls were very attracted to guys that were thin and well defined (especially if they had an unusually large cock) Now that I am in my 30's I am very comfortable with my body. Although looking back I was probably in better shape when I was younger.
     
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    yes
     
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    I have a similar problem - I know I have an ok body - VERY broad shoulers... natural 'v' shape - strong chest and strong legs... but I kow it's vain but there's no body shot until I feel comfortable enough.
     
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    I'm with slayer04. I had some surgery on my stomach when I was 16 and very few people have ever seen me shirtless since. I'll happily kick off my pants and walk around on a beach but I never take my shirt off.
     
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    Nimbus, do you hae a long midline scar? If tidy and on a lean guy, those can be kind of sexy. Check out the swimwear models at internationaljock.com. One who is incredibly buff, and beautiful, has a scar from sternum to pubis.
     
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