Coming In A Girl's Mouth

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  1. Mobey

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    I was 17 and was making out with my girlfriend, she was 16.

    I went down on her after we took a shower - she came and returned the favor by giving me head.

    It wasn't really good, but I came in her mouth, she spit it back, gave a nasty face and broke up with me for "not warning her."

    This traumatized me for years.

    Is this normal?
     
  2. OldFirm08

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    Uhh, think we are looking for legal age adults to post up/discuss such topics on this site. Better take it someplace else.
     
  3. uncut1234

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    if the story is true, shes either nuts or there was another reason... if you like someone and are "dating" them or "going out" or whatever you wana call it.. boyfriend and girlfriend... i couldnt imagine breaking up for something so stupid as you not warning her before you cummed.... ive had many girls get mad foor me not warning them... but thats certainly not reason to break up or stop hanging out... she must have had other reasons and used that for an excuse..
     
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    he said it happend when he was 17.. and it has traumatized him for YEARS... do the math...
     
  5. lucky8

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    i wouldnt fret dude. some girls are just weird like that. it's not you're fault that she didn't tell you not to cum in her mouth
     
  6. MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK

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    Probably her first time- shouldn't let one experience throw you unitl you've done it more.
     
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    Dude, she was 16. WTF does she know anyways? But from my own experience, all of my partners have appreciated knowing it was on the way. Cum in your mouth is fun, but choking is a drag.

    I think this is the first time I've posted in the ladies' forum, and I've got to say...I now understand why they don't like I dumbass dudes cluttering it with dumbass questions.
     
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    I prefer a warning as I like to enjoy the experience and ready my gag reflex.
     
  9. Principessa

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    He was rude. Most adults have the "where can I cum convo" before engaging in sex or oral sex. I guess the key word there is adult. Besides, even if the girl has previously agreed to swallow, the man is supposed to warn you that he's coming.


    That's what I was thinking. :cool: I'm guessing he had an expectation based on watching porn; which she knew nothing about.


     
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    some girls wont swallow some will. i ask b4 i even try. try that next time
     
  11. D_Hamish Honkinhuge

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    I agree, although i love when girls swallow, its not a turn on for me if they have that "yuk" face, spit, or gag.
    I like to cum in their mouths when they specifically ask for it in their mouths.
     
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    Maybe she was inexperienced because usually it inst to hard to figure out when he's about to to cum. But it is considerate to give a warning. And also, dont forget that not all girls like to swallow
     
  13. B_The Greek Dude

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    Regardless of any other factors, you're supposed to SAY SOMETHING when you feel close to blowing your load.
     
  14. _Alexxx_

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    Either say something, moan in a way she will know for sure what's about to going on. Doing otherwise is disrespectful and it worsens the experience.

    Even if it's the first time for her or if she's the biggest swallower on earth. In the latter case she will want to be prepared, adjust the deepness of the penetration so she can receive the load at her convenience or pleasure, etc.
     
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    I ALWAYS give a heads up before I cum. I like when she rubs it all over her body and uses it as body cream anyway...

    A friend and I were both doing the same girl a few years back when he blasted in her mouth and she REALLY got pissed at us! I didn't even know what happened until after we left - I didn't know he came!
     
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    Definitely need a warning! I used to date a guy that made no sounds during sex, breathing barely even changed, I never had a clue when he was cumming. Told him if he didn't let me know, I'd quit blowing him, that worked!!
     
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    is that one of the 10 Commandments? I'm naive about the subject... :shysmile:
     
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    A little warning goes a long way, and as njqt said, getting some stuff out in the open first will make thing a lot more fun.
     
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    I Always give a warning. Sometimes she jerks it off, sometimes spits, sometimes swallows. It's all good to me. I love it either way:)
     
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    I hate spitters.
    If you gonna give a bj and spit, tell me, id rather cum somewhere else if she is gonna spit.
    I always give a clear warning.
    Everyone should
     
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