Coming out as a solosexual

[Road_cyclist]

Hi all. I'm a solosexual. There. I said it!

It means that I love playing with my cock. A lot. And I love edging more than sex. In fact, I don't like sex with someone else, and I'm also not good at it. Instead I am an expert masturbator, and I love having solo edging sessions for many hours in a row. I don't like porn of people having sex, and during many sessions it's just me and my cock. However I do enjoy watching other solo pics or vids.

Being a solosexual doesn't make me a loner. I have a normal social life. And whilst I am perfcetly happy to have fun on my own, I also like to edge together with other guys.

That's my solosexual coming out :veryhappy:

Feel free to comment or ask question. And perhaps there are others who want to come out as a solo sexual?

 

[wallyj84]

I don't like sex with other people either. I prefer masturbation and pornography.

Personally I find the idea of sex better than the reality. The reality is messy and mediocre. I enjoy connecting with someone else and giving them pleasure. But just on a sheer physical level, my hand is better than any vagina/mouth I've encountered.

 

[NIMBUS]

With you totally. I hate being pawed and groped or having somebody else's breath in your face - which doesn't happen when you look after your own needs!

That said, it's huge fun to sit around with a mate or mates and stroke one out together and visually appreciate what each other has.

 

[1NiceRod]

I agree with everything you guys said about masturbation, but I still love sex with other people too.

 

[wallyj84]

With you totally. I hate being pawed and groped or having somebody else's breath in your face - which doesn't happen when you look after your own needs!

That said, it's huge fun to sit around with a mate or mates and stroke one out together and visually appreciate what each other has.

I Also lik appreciating someone else's body. I love a woman's body. I just want to look and touch, not fuck.

 

[socalfreak]

This has got to be one of the saddest threads I've ever read.
Jesus h. Christ.....

 

[Popyuu]

This has got to be one of the saddest threads I've ever read.
Jesus h. Christ.....

How is this sad? They like what they like and they aren't hurting anyone.

 

[Exbiker]

This has got to be one of the saddest threads I've ever read.
Jesus h. Christ.....

Why?

I am bisexual in that, like 1NiceRod above , I like it both alone and with others.

I find your comment rather oppressive ...

:wink:

 

[HFOStimmer]

I was solosexual for 12-13 years, then it slowly morphed into non-sexual

 

[LittleDicky]

I was solosexual for 12-13 years, then it slowly morphed into non-sexual

I've been celibate for so long that I think my virginity grew back ! ...

 

[hairynycstud]

luv pussy but need that penis time...edging gooning and getting totally retarded beating meat helps me connect to my maleness ...how bros are ...primal..genetic

 

[bwhip1011]

This has got to be one of the saddest threads I've ever read.
Jesus h. Christ.....

Ha! I think that you preferring pussy is about the saddest thing I've ever heard of, but normally I'd keep that to myself! Oye! Leave it alone. :nono:

 

[798686]

How is this sad? They like what they like and they aren't hurting anyone.

Agreed.

Why?

I am bisexual in that, like 1NiceRod above , I like it both alone and with others.

I find your comment rather oppressive ...

:wink:

I found it a little smug and self-satisfied. :wink:

 

[LaFemme]

It might be sad if it isn't by your own choice. Or if porn has destroyed desire for other human beings.

The world is a big place with lots of configurations for sexual happiness. Thats just my opinion.

 

[BIGBULL29]

People can't choose who they are sexually.

 

[horseymann]

Would having sex with 3 women make you a trisexual?

 

[hectoring]

I told a hopeful ex recently that I was no longer into group sex, which meant anybody more than me alone!

 

[wallyj84]

This has got to be one of the saddest threads I've ever read.
Jesus h. Christ.....

Can you please explain why it's so sad?

 

[JohnDoeXXXm]

Well, we can't choose "who we are" sexually- but I think all would agree that we all make choices on a regular basis based on stimulation. This repetition is a "fixing"... so experiences during puberty and the beginning of sexual identity formation that start weak and become stronger- and with age comes the ability to assign meaning to a sexual scene.
These mental "scripts" become the building blocks of what we run in our minds behind the scenes- and that's why sexuality is fluid- the play becomes stale and must be refreshed.

 

[LittleDicky]

Would having sex with 3 women make you a trisexual?

No, but a Quadrasexual will do anything with anyone for a Quarter ! :yikes: