I realise that I will need to come out soon. I don't consider myself fully gay, but there's something about another guy that makes me feel so much better about myself? I don't know. It's hard to explain. I love seeing girls and everything associated, but I can't deny the fact I am a bisexual. How do I .. come out? My parents, grandparents, friends, other family members WILL judge me. I know they will. It's inevitable given the fact I'm Asian. Yes, that is a huge stereotype but to those who are gay and Asian, you may be able to relate to my predicament. I don't have an understanding group of close people, I don't have that safety net that some of you may have had when you came out. I don't want to be alone for a year as I pick up the pieces of my life because the worst thing that can ever happen to my parents is to have their only Asian son turn 'gay' on them. I'm about to turn 22 and I don't want to continue living in fear of myself. I want to put myself out there but the fear of being discovered as being a bisexual/gay individual is enough to stop me cold.