I can understand the need for gay guys to come out to their parents, but what about bi guys? Whilst I have told my friends that I am bi and most of them are cool with it, I hesitate to tell my parents in fear of causing them unnecessary anxiety when in fact I could end up marrying a girl, settling down and having 2.4 children! Then again, if I do strike up a significant relationship with a guy, do I still tell them that I'm bi...or have I become gay at that point? Because to me once you're in a relationship, to say that you're bi sounds like a lack of integrity and commitment. Surely you are then monogamous and therefore gay or straight depending on the gender of your partner. Obviously I'd still technically be bisexual, but do parents need to know that?