Our thoughts will be with you. I hate it that you think your dad will kick you out. You know him better than we do. Personally, I love my three sons. They are my sons. They will be as long as I live and beyond. No way would I disown one of my sons. There is nothing, absolutely nothing they can do to loose my love for them. I may be disappointed. And I would tell that if it were the case. But kick them out of the house? No, it would only be for purposes to help them such as getting them to become independent when they are in their mid twenties and it is time for them to start their own adult life in their own home. And then I wouldn't call it kicking them out.
I can't support you financially son. I am disabled. But I will provide any emotional support you need. Thanks for telling us your situation.
I am here if I can help you.
Freddie
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Your lucky. I'm sure when I do, I'll have mixed reactions. Well I know my dad would kick me out (I live with him) which is why I DO want to tell him, mom I duno shes a mixed bag, as are some of my friends. It would take me serious thinking before I did anything. So far theres aobut 3 people who I KNOW would be OK with it, but I just gotta consider the rest. So far as I see it, if they're really
my friends, they will be chill with it, but call me a sap, I just don't feel like losing any more people than I have to and already have. One of my "friends" when I was in 7th grade that I was gay (at that point I still thought of myself as straight, and actually had crushes on girls before (hence my 1%)) And about half my friends ditched me. They pretended to be OK with it (no matter how many times I told them that I wasn't, they didn't believe me) but we eventually drifted away by the end of summer. It hurt, I'll admit, but oh well. It's better to know who's really your unconditional friend rather than be lead on that you have a friend, but sometimes, the truth just plain hurts like a bitch. I'll come out someday, probably soon, but no matter what happens, I'll be adamant that it's MY life, and I'll do what I want with it, enjoying every last second of it!
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