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Many of the posters on here claim to be quite open with their female partners. However, Ive hooked up with many bi guys and when I ask them if their wives or girlfriends know that they like to play with men, the look at as if Im insane. Nearly all of them are convinced that admitting to same-sex play, even in their distant past, would be a catastrophe.
I can understand the difficulties of coming out in the middle of marriage or long term relationship, but these guys are unwilling to mention it even in the early dating period with a woman.
Is this a reasonable fear? What are your experiences?
I can understand the difficulties of coming out in the middle of marriage or long term relationship, but these guys are unwilling to mention it even in the early dating period with a woman.
Is this a reasonable fear? What are your experiences?