Coming To Terms With Your Sexuality

D_Montfort_Bolluxlifter

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I still haven't accepted it, I came out early high school years but after graduating Iwas just kicked out, family keep their kids away from me.
Always told myself, I don't know right now ill wait til I'm 26 when I know better, but you ever deal with the pushy people asking if you're gay? Or the ones where if you have sex with a man once you aren't straight and wont ever be. Yeah as arrogant as that is, that's what I've befriended since family.
 

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I didn't suck my first cock until I was about 21 and it was around 10 years later before I sucked on another one.

Looking back I see the signs that I liked males even when I was younger.

When I was 12 or 13 I was in a classroom alone with a very physically well developed guy. He loved to show off, so I quietly asked him if I could see his bicep. He proudly flexed for me, it was inpressive. Then a few year later I was alone with a neighbor who was a swimmer. I asked if I could see his chest. Perfect six pack and well developed pecs.

I think this is why I like female bodybuilders and ladyboys. FBB give me that physical power I love, with the six pack and strong arms, while also giving me the scent and beauty, as well as the physical parts, of a woman. LB give me the feminity of a woman, with a nice hard cock.

I like men and women, but women more than men. For me men are the sexual pleasures, women are not only sexual, but emotional.
 

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This site has helped me a lot. There are so many amazing people here and I am so glad to be part of this community.

I've been attracted to both males and females for as long as I remember. I've definitely made peace with my omnisexuality or whatever I am (i.e., I felt bad about it for basically all of my 20s, but think it makes me more open-minded and interesting now). I agree that this site has helped me a lot in terms of feeling "normal" in the almost 3 years that I've been here.
 

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I grew up in a very strict household, so it wasn't until I left home and went to college that I really came to terms with my sexuality. I vowed to break out of my shell and be much more confident and open to new ideas, and indirectly that made me more accepting of myself for being gay. Meeting other gay people and making gay friends that were happy and accepting of who they were helped a lot. I had very low self-esteem, part of which stemmed from being gay, but seeing them so happy and accepting eventually gave me the courage to come out of the closet to my parents. :)
 

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Like many other on this thread, I have accepted the fact that I'm bisexual. I am however more attracted to women than men. Nonetheless I am attracted to men as well. Don't think I can ever publicly declare it, but I at least feel better and more comfortable to allow myself to accept it.
I've had one relationship with a man and it was fulfilling. In my marriage now, I find it to be way more exciting and fulfilling than my male relationship was.
At work I have an openly gay co-worker that has told me he thought I was attractive, caught him staring at my ass, and making certain comments. At first I was nervous. Then I just accepted that I'm fortunate enough to attract and entice both sexes. Lucky me! He knows that there is nothing there between us on my end, just the thought that I could entice him if I wanted is a turn on.