Commenting on foreskins

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by nakedone, Sep 14, 2009.

  1. nakedone

    nakedone New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 10, 2009
    Messages:
    199
    Likes Received:
    11
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    USA
    How often have you been naked in the locker room when another guy comments on your foreskin?

    It has happened to me several times. Some guys will open by saying "I see you're not cut." and it will go from there.

    A few times I have been asked "how does it work" and I have demonstrated how I retract the foreskin. Once I made this demonstration for three other guys in the sauna.

    I have found that many guys who are cut are fascinated by those of us who are not.
     
  2. unabear09

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 17, 2007
    Messages:
    7,083
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    24
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Little Rock, AR
    I have to admit that I'd be facinated if I were to seen an uncut man in the showers. Now....I don't think I would have the balls to say anything to him about it.
     
  3. Principessa

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2006
    Messages:
    19,494
    Likes Received:
    28
    Gender:
    Female
    That's about the oddest thing I've ever heard. :confused: Maybe cause there's nothing on a girl that isn't self explanatory to another girl. I've never had another woman ask me about a body part in a locker room.
     
  4. D_Jared Padalicki

    D_Jared Padalicki Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Mar 8, 2008
    Messages:
    8,104
    Likes Received:
    33
    Nope, never had a comment about it, but yeah, having a foreskin here isn't that unusual :rolleyes:
     
  5. a_uncensored

    a_uncensored New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 24, 2009
    Messages:
    69
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Ohio
    I obviously don't have one as a female but I think it would be rude to ask unless you maybe were friends with the guy. This should be a non-issue
    it's only in the US that there are so mant cut guys anyways.

    There's nothing wrong with being uncut - I think it looks great!
     
  6. D_Tim McGnaw

    D_Tim McGnaw Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Aug 30, 2009
    Messages:
    7,317
    Likes Received:
    8
    When I lived in NY for a short while I was asked about my foreskin maybe three times by complete strangers, once in a toilet in a bar downtown somewhere, and twice by guys at the fitness club I used to go to.

    The guy in the bar was awe struck, it was weird and even though I really open about most things this guy's wide eyed astonishment just annoyed me a bit so when he said "would you ever consider getting that cut off?" I just walked away without answering, way too personal.

    The guys in the gym were more polite so it wasn't a problem.
     
  7. AM_092

    AM_092 Guest

    I think that applies mostly in the U.S... Most guys I know are uncut, which is normal these days where I live. I wouldn't mind if someone asks me though :)
     
  8. rackrackrack

    rackrackrack Active Member

    Joined:
    Jun 13, 2008
    Messages:
    738
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    48
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Europe
    I would get quite shy if someone asked me something like that, but then that's not happening because you know, the majority of european men aren't cut. I considered circumcision when i was 16/17 yrs old but i guess i was just influenced by porn movies. Nowadays i don't have any problems about that.
     
  9. ginger_qboy

    ginger_qboy Member

    Joined:
    Sep 6, 2007
    Messages:
    409
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    17
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Toronto, Ontario
    I have had cut friends ask for a demo but never by randoms in public!!

    Similar to Australia, Canada has both models of cock readily available to enjoy :) :)

    American's (in general) view 'intact' dicks as abnormal/weird so I am not surprised to hear that 'natural' guys get oogled at the gym etc.
     
  10. Nottswanker

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 26, 2009
    Messages:
    522
    Albums:
    5
    Likes Received:
    228
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Nottingham uk
    Verified:
    Photo
    That's never happened to me here (in the UK). I showed a group of female friends, on their request, in the US once.
     
  11. ellehutton

    ellehutton Member

    Joined:
    Jul 22, 2006
    Messages:
    121
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    18
    Location:
    Hollywood, CA
    Kind of sad really, that they do not know.
    Uncut is beautiful!
     
  12. matt121matt121

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2007
    Messages:
    1,409
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    78
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Fort Lauderdale, Florida
    I've been wanting to ask an uncut friend for a demo, but haven't gotten up the nerve yet.

    Its not that cut guys are necessarily ogling at uncut guys, its just were curious what it is like to have an uncut dick, as most of us were not given a choice as to whether or not we wanted to be circumcised or not.

    I know I never even saw an uncut dick up close until this past april 09 at my first naturist event, prior to that I think I "maybe" saw one for like 5 seconds in the locker room my sophomore year of college, but that guy only showered for the first time on the very last day of class, and he was way down at the end so I didn't get a good look...and I still haven't seen one in action, as I have never been with an uncut guy, so I haven't seen how the gliding action on a true uncut penis function...as I have some skin, but as i was technically cut, I don't have true uncut penis function.

    I have had guys ask me if I'm cut or uncut, or more often I think I've been asked why I wasn't cut, then I have to get into the whole explanation of how there are different methods of circumcison, and how from the information that I have and from the scaring that I was in fact cut, it was just done in a loose/partial way, which leaves me with my somewhat uncut appearance...unless the guy is just really creepy about the way they ask or they continue to pester after I have provided an answer then I am ok with talking to them about it...as I know they are most likely just curious, and most guys have no idea that there are different methods of circumcision or different styles of circumsion..
     
  13. denton85

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 17, 2009
    Messages:
    235
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    19
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Long Island, NY
    Verified:
    Photo
    yeah here in the states and in NY i've always been the token uncut guy. I had 2 girls ask me if they can see it cause they never saw one before ... i respectfully declined because i'd rather have a girl want to see it for other reasons ... i'm not going to go show random people i KNOW my penis for fascination... the Internet is there for a reason.... where i show it for everyone on this site lol

    though it's a slight double whammy to girls i'm about to have sex with, because i'm usually the only guy they've seen with an uncut penis, and probably one of the biggest or the biggest they've seen, so it usually causes a couple extra seconds of pause while they play with it
     
  14. eastbaydude

    eastbaydude New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 21, 2005
    Messages:
    488
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    18
    Gender:
    Male
    I've spent plenty of time in gyms and lockerrooms and don't think anyone ever asked about my foreskin. Certainly, no one ever asked for a demonstration. That would be very, very strange. I suppose if someone really had a genuine interest, I'd be OK with it, but that type of conversations just doesn't come up.

    I did have a conversation about it in a bar once. I went out with a couple of freinds, including one who had seen me changing plenty of times. Although I don't remember what led up to it, we were chatting with a couple of girls and he says, "You ought to see my buddy's penis. He's got a really long foreskin that hangs over the head." Until I can steer the conversation away from, we're talking about my cock. Later, when I asked him what the fuck he was thinking, he said he was trying to get one of us laid. By the way, neither of us got laid that night.
     
  15. Joseph

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 6, 2006
    Messages:
    582
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    50
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Poland
    Verified:
    Photo
    I'm very surprised.. I'm extremely shy, but I wouldn't mind that much to well "show how it works", as long as the guy would seem "normal" and just curious.

    I guess it's because lately the whole circumcision thing was on my mind and I did feel curious how it is being CUT, so I'd be curious about that too. I know sounds odd but.........
     
  16. B_thickjohnny

    B_thickjohnny New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 2, 2007
    Messages:
    2,874
    Likes Received:
    42
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Atlanta GA
    If you're ever in Prague, I would be happy to show you my cut cock! :) Happy to help anytime.
     
  17. NCbear

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 18, 2006
    Messages:
    1,433
    Likes Received:
    18
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Back in NC
    Huh. Me too. But I was born with a short foreskin that exposes at least 1/3 of the head all the time. So I guess if other guys see a telltale "cover" over the coronal ridge, it draws their eyes--and some ask questions.

    NCbear (who talks about dick with anyone who's not uptight :rolleyes::biggrin1:)
     
  18. glwill

    glwill New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2009
    Messages:
    4
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    I live in South Africa and most guys here are uncut. Why try to change what God made perfect. Cleanliness? Then you are dirty. In our country and most of europe it is unusual to see a cut guy. You do realise that being cut has taken away alot of sensitivity. Shame and how barbaric to force a choose like that onto a baby who has no voice.
     
  19. hung

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 10, 2004
    Messages:
    2,766
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    51
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    USA
    I have never been asked for a demonstration, but if anyone were to ask me I would gladly show them.

    Some time back I was a Training/Teaching Associate at a Medical School and I was the model/instructor for Medical Students. I demonstrated the penis and the foreskine and how to perform the exam for little lumps on or near the testicles. The students emulated my movements.

    Very professional and no problems. We had to attend a lesson where we were instructed as to what to say should a penis stiffen up. The answer was: "I see things are working well" or " you appear to be normal and healthy."

    We also discussed pre-cum because with people examining a penis that was also possible.

    I was chosen for the task because I did have a foreskine. The other instructor in a different room was uncut so the Medical Students learned about both styles of peni that day.
     
  20. Joseph

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 6, 2006
    Messages:
    582
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    50
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Poland
    Verified:
    Photo
    Em no thanks, but still thanks for the offer.

    True, one of the things that makes me prefer being uncut is the fact that it’s how I was born. But I know there are people who love it, so…. But without a doubt, I find it awful to be cut at birth without a choice, getting to grow back is hard, I don’t like that at all. It should be a choice as an adult.
     
Draft saved Draft deleted