I'm in the same situation with my partner. He is bigger than me in length and girth and he is more talented than I am at some things as well re
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He made a suggestion that we should try a 3some while we were both on holiday recently and the 1st thing to come to my mind was that he was over me. I couldn't imagine having a 3some with my partner as, like Phil A has mentioned, there are emotions involved that could end up making things worse than before. I did see the reason for having a 3some if it was just about sex and sex only ie. if it's just another cock to join in because that's what you want then fine it makes sense. So I agreed to try this but my "criteria" seemed different to his. I was happy to find someone that looked "fit" to have sex as the main thing and the rest would be looked at later. He was looking for a 10-pack, 6'3" supermodel off the runway with muscles up to his forehead and a dick like a king size tube of Pringles. Wanna talk about emotions?? Maybe my pride was hurt here but ok I'm not a supermodel or the best looking guy with the biggest dick and muscles for Africa - all material things I know but then this is what he was after so what am I meant to feel/think?
I guess my role models for relationships are my parents and they were together until my father passed away. I can't imagine sharing my partner with anybody that way but what's done is now done and we have had a couple over the last month. I have only myself to blame as I did agree, but now we are home from holiday the only thing I can think about is what we did and how he must have been thinking about this for some time. Maybe now we are home he wants to keep having 3somes with guys he sees - my old fashioned sense of relationships tells me this could be the beginning of the end.
I thought about talking to friends about it, but I don't have the best friends to confide in you see. So a place like this is perfect - any advice would be great..