Common mistakes men make during oral sex?

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what are the common mistakes you typically find men make during oral?

and if it's not too much trouble, describe how you like to be eaten and where you like him to concentrate (eg. clit etc.)
 

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Every woman is different so what may be awful for me might be great for someone else. The problem is YOU DON'T LISTEN! When a guy isn't doing something right i tell him what to do. He does that for 30 seconds then goes right back to what i asked him NOT to do. It's like you think you know best. Or we're lying when we say we don't like it. Just stop doing what you think we'll love coz chances are we don't. Go slow to start with and if a girl says "i like that" KEEP DOING IT! DON'T GET FASTER OR HARDER OR DO SOMETHING ELSE!
 

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Yep, I agree with Loving, I HATE HATE HATE when a guy does something that feels really good and I tell him that, and he stops doing it or changes and does something else.
When I say: "Don't stop" or "Keep doing that"- then just listen to me and do it, please!
 
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I hate when I tell a guy that something feels really good so he starts doing it faster/harder. That isn't better. At that point you're just overstimulating me and it doesn't feel good, or you've completely lost the "spot" that was driving me wild altogether and then I'm just disappointed and annoyed.

Note* - This isn't just for oral sex.
 

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Did anyone say that men just don't listen???

Pay attention to how I am responding.... If I move your head, don't go back... Listen with your ears and your head!

FP

Yes I agree with Intoxicatin..... spot on!
 

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And there you have it! Every woman is unique in what she likes, and so there is no substitute for actually listening. And comprehending. And responding accordingly. And if you woman is not able to explain herself, it then becomes a futile exercise.

Then again, when a male is enthusiastic, I find that rather winning in itself. All cunts secretly want to be judged delicious.
 

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Stopping.

Don't ask me if I like that. I'll tell you if I don't. And like everyone else said, don't change what you're doing if I tell you I like it. Why? Why? Why?
 

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Not focusing on the clitoris and going inside the vagina.

I don't get much pleasure out of someone sticking their tongue inside my vagina or on the lower area. I only feel stimulation when the clitoris is being licked, and some men have a hard time staying on that spot.
 

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Assuming every woman likes it the same way.

Blow jobs are all in the same book... The techniques might be a little different but at the end of it all you still get the same result.

Cunninglingus is more like a set of enclopidias, you won't know shit about zebras if all you ever read is about ardvarks.
 

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As mentioned, every women is different, however for me it has to do with a guy being too aggressive when he starts out. For me, it's gentle and soft, work your way up to more pressure and intensity over time. And about time, take it slow. It's not a sprint to the finish. I hate when a guy goes right for my clit and starts licking hard because not only is it uncomfortable, like being tickled, but it absolutely kills my chances later on to have a orgasm. The sensitivity is all fucked up and I don't want him to go anywhere near my pussy once he's done that. I'll pull away in a second and kick a guy hard who does it. It's like, 'what the fuck dude, this isn't a pie eating contest!' (well, you know). And I tell you what, if he screws up my chances he can forget about his. Game over man, put willy away.