just started at a new group of Y's in NJ. I've tried 3 of the 5 branches and was pleased to find they all have open showers. In one of the locations, they had a row of stalls along one wall. I was pleased to see that 2 guys use the stalls while 10 or so used the open showers, all naked with me. At another location, where the open shower seemed to primarily serve the pool, I was the only one to strip off my speedo. Guys were friendly and nobody seemed to avert their eyes as we chatted. While it was disappointing to not see other dicks, there is a bit of a thrill being the only one naked...it feels more exposed when my penis is the only one that a group of guys sees.
I like the open showers too. They seem to be slowly disappearing.Unfortunately my gym doesn't have communal showers I have to go by another gym to enjoy the stream room and communal showers as well as the swimming pool. Don't know why all gyms don't have communal showers instead of stalls. There are some guys that don't use the showers at all and some who go to the shower dressed and strip off outside of the shower. I don't get it. Any way they get to see my dick when I get undressed, walk to the shower and when I'm drying off. Doesn't bother me to be the only one naked in the locker room. Ha ha
I like the open showers too. They seem to be slowly disappearing.
I've been in similar locker rooms for decades, but never saw someone hard like that! Maybe a little engorged and looking huge.
There's a reason why communal bathing was common in Roman times and in the military. Those bonds were essential to societal and military units back then. I believe those bonds are more essential today in our modernized hectic world where people feel more isolated and disconnected than ever despite social media which seems to have caused more damage than good in my opinion because it's so empty and unfulfilling. OK, sermon over!![]()
I do think that there are a lot of guys of all ages out there that still want communal showers based on what I have seen at my Y. While a majority of guys that use them are older, I have noticed more younger guys in their 20s using them as well as guys in their 30s and 40s. Lately I have noticed a surge of new members, and I have been pleasantly surprised to see that many of them are in the 20-40 year age range. As I mentioned in my previous post, the Y is the ONLY gym left in the city that still has communal showers, so there are plenty of other gyms in the city to go to if one wants privacy. My Y doesn't come cheap either unless a person has a subsidized membership, and if a member has a subsidized membership, they have to use the basic locker room (which does have a communal shower as well) rather than the plus locker room which costs about $70/month. This is the same price as most gyms in town that have private showers. In the communal shower at my Y, there is 1 stall with a curtain that was put in during the remodel, but it is hardly used unless the other 8 shower heads in the communal shower room are being fully used.
It was quiet last night at my Y, but I noticed when I was in the shower that a bodybuilder in his 30s was using the wet area for what seemed to be the first time. I have seen him many times on the gym floor before, but never in the plus locker room. He seemed very unsure about how things were done there. I noticed him watching me for guidance. He was going through a lot of extra effort to keep his towel around his waist in the wet area. I like most guys are completely naked the second I enter the wet area until the second I leave. I always walk to and from my locker naked as do most other guys. He did use the shower head right next to mine when we were both in the communal shower. He could have opted for the 1 stall that was unoccupied but didn't. I also noticed that he went to the hot tub naked after he saw me getting out of it naked after his shower. It's very rare that a guy doesn't uses the hot tub naked at my Y. He did however keep his towel on until the second he hit the water. I honestly thought he was going to keep it on in the hot tub! That would have been a first! LOL!
I do think that guys are starting to realize that something is lost when there is privacy in the locker room and shower. I have mentioned before in other threads that locker rooms that are relaxed about nudity have a different vibe than locker room that are uptight about it and the dynamics change. I have also mentioned before that in my experience, guys guards come down when they are naked together. Over the last 30 years that I have been using open showers, I have struck up friendly conversations with more guys than I can count while we were naked together in the locker room and communal shower. You just can't strike up a conversation with guys while working out, but you can in the locker room, steam room, hot tub, and open shower while naked. I would say that in my experience about 99% of guys are receptive to friendly conversation while naked. Just recently I have made friends with a guy half my age when we were naked together in the hot tub, steam room and open shower in the locker room at my Y. We are connected on social media because of it, and this is not rare. I'm still connected with several young guys on social media I met while we were both naked at the Y. The most recent guy actually found me on social media. How he did this I don't know because I just introduced myself by my first name. He's a cool guy, and when we bumped into each other naked in the locker room last week, we chatted away for a good half an hour. About a half an hour after I left the gym, he sent me a message through social media telling me how much he enjoyed talking to me and that he would see me around. Nudity creates bonding moments. There's a reason why communal bathing was common in Roman times and in the military. Those bonds were essential to societal and military units back then. I believe those bonds are more essential today in our modernized hectic world where people feel more isolated and disconnected than ever despite social media which seems to have caused more damage than good in my opinion because it's so empty and unfulfilling. OK, sermon over!![]()
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