Okay - so in dealing with exes. what are your thoughts? My most recent ex (fiance) was an acrimonious parting of ways when I called off the wedding. She flipped out and went psycho. I blocked her from instant message and refused to have any contact with her and disregarded her attempts to be in touch me. However, I was desperately in love with her as she was with me. With it being Christmas and a couple of months having passed, I sent her a simple e-mail wishing her a Merry Christmas. Do you think this will open the flood gates of communication? Which I do not want and was not the point. I simply wanted to wish her well on Christmas. Would any of you ahve done this with an ex or am I the dumbest ass ever?