Comparing brothers' size...lolwut?

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It's not about "who", it's about "where". In a very patriarchal society, your dick is pretty much synonymous with privilege. Showing it off is seen as manly, because it's transgressive, strange. "My dick's bigger, here's the proof. Since this makes me manlier/better than you, I can choose which rules to follow".

Not really certain what this is supposed to mean, all I know is that mindfully comparing or showing off genitals to family members/relatives of either gender is odd and inappropriate.
 

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What is a norm for nudist living isn't a norm for others.

I don't believe I referenced nudists per se. I believe I said some brothers grow up in close quarters and families have varying degrees of nudity. It really isn't unusual for family members to see each other in varying levels of clothing or none at all. My brother and I didn't outright compare that I know of but we certainly saw each other and knew what was there. We were 2 guys who shared a bathroom with our sister, we had to use it when we could
 

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Too many people are getting bent out of shape over this. Lets go back to basics, if you don't like what this "thread" is discussing then don't read it. It's clear in the title what it's going to be about. Some of you however are putting your own sense of morality on others. That's wrong. If no one is getting hurt, 'except for ego or pride because he is the smaller one' and its mutual between the people then what gives you the right to judge people with your own sense of right and wrong.
 

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I agree! Typical double standard applied to males. Do sisters comparte boob size? Yes, all the time. What's different when guys do it?
In my view, it's like brothers comparing noses or feet. Body parts. "How's yours? This is what mine looks like". Isn't it much more "natural" to compare with our brothers than with strangers through a website?


Too many people are getting bent out of shape over this. Lets go back to basics, if you don't like what this "thread" is discussing then don't read it. It's clear in the title what it's going to be about. Some of you however are putting your own sense of morality on others. That's wrong. If no one is getting hurt, 'except for ego or pride because he is the smaller one' and its mutual between the people then what gives you the right to judge people with your own sense of right and wrong.
 

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Comparing with any male family member or relative seems odd and somewhat disturbing. I guess if it was between a couple of drinks buddies then it happens in some cases. But to deliberately whip out and show your dick to your brother, father, uncle or whomever...who does that?
I have five brothers. We'd go camping as a family growing up . We would often shower at the campground facility together for the most part . That's the only time i could compare with my other sibs . Nothing creepy about that .
 
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I have five brothers. We'd go camping as a family growing up . We would often shower at the campground facility together for the most part . That's the only time i could compare with my other sibs . Nothing creepy about that .

Well, all I know is if I had to shower in the vicinity of a brother, there's be a swimsuit on. To each their own I guess.
 

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Well, all I know is if I had to shower in the vicinity of a brother, there's be a swimsuit on. To each their own I guess.
Yes to each his own. When you have a big family you don't get much privacy. At least that what it was like in my case .I was taught not to be ashamed of my body so it's feel odd or dirty or shameful.
 
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Yes to each his own. When you have a big family you don't get much privacy. At least that what it was like in my case .I was taught not to be ashamed of my body so it's feel odd or dirty or shameful.

Ok I get the big family argument, but it pisses me off when people say things like "well I'm not ashamed of my body" or "my family is comfortable with nudity". It's not a matter of body shame at all. It's just a matter of behaving like a normal, civilized family (I get the shower thing, but I mean other people - not you). Of course there are no rules against it, but it's just an unspoken rule; you don't walk around your family naked. Some of these posts I've read on here talk about jacking off with brothers cousins, seeing their father's erection, etc.. It's like a 50 year old man checking out a high school girl; is it illegal? No. But is it odd, off-putting behavior? Yes
 

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Yes to each his own. When you have a big family you don't get much privacy. At least that what it was like in my case .I was taught not to be ashamed of my body so it's feel odd or dirty or shameful.

As I said up thread, I come from a big family (7 sons) and don't recall ever seeing anyone naked beyond the very early years when our mother put us in the bathtub two at a time.

Not even the brother that I shared a bedroom with until he married at age 19'ish and moved out of the house.
 
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I agree! Typical double standard applied to males. Do sisters comparte boob size? Yes, all the time. What's different when guys do it?
In my view, it's like brothers comparing noses or feet. Body parts. "How's yours? This is what mine looks like". Isn't it much more "natural" to compare with our brothers than with strangers through a website?
That's not exactly the same thing. One breasts do not change with sexual arousal they are just a body part.

Comparing an erect penis, especially if it was in person; as in they are both in the same room, would be equivalent to sisters comparing the differences in how wet they got when aroused.

And that would be extremely weird if sisters did that.

If brothers say took turns going to the bathroom and measuring themselves I sutll that would be weird but that would not be incest
 

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I have a gay acquaintance, let's call him B, well-known for a huge, long cock, which looks all the bigger as he has a rather slender build. One night B is talking with the guys at the bar, and it comes up that he has a straight brother. Someone asked if the brother was as hung, and B said that they would always compare cock size when they were younger, and the brother claimed to be bigger, but they were about equal. Somebody asked B if his brother was married, and the answer was yes, for a number of years now. All of a sudden, everybody cracked up. We were all thinking the same thing, and then someone finally said it: "That poor pussy must be ripped to shreds by now!"
I have five brothers. We'd go camping as a family growing up . We would often shower at the campground facility together for the most part . That's the only time i could compare with my other sibs . Nothing creepy about that .

I grew up with no brothers but I have seen my father and most of his brothers cock at on time or another. How you can live with brothers and not see them naked or at least there cocks I don't understand. We were just living life as normal people and I can tell you about how most of my Dads brothers are hung pretty good. Nothing dirty about it just living life as normal people.
 

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I grew up with no brothers but I have seen my father and most of his brothers cock at on time or another. How you can live with brothers and not see them naked or at least there cocks I don't understand. We were just living life as normal people and I can tell you about how most of my Dads brothers are hung pretty good. Nothing dirty about it just living life as normal people.

How can you see their cocks would be my question. You've seen your dad and uncles' cocks. No offense but what the fuck? Seriously. People take showers ok their own, wear towels or bathing suits, etc. who are these people seeing their father's, brother's, uncle's cocks? It's extremely odd I must say.
 
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think what you may! I give one example and then fuck you on the rest. I don't need to explain anything. I have seen my dads cock several times. He bathes or showers and then shaves in sink naked with the door open. Nothing but just normal living for us. Dream on!
 

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This has become an incredibly conservative judgmental site considering how much of it is about looking at dicks and discussing them. You actually used to be able to have a discussion on what's fairly normal family behavior without everyone screaming "incest". But most of the old active members who kept the site interesting ended up banned for some reason or another
 
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Yes. This site is for looking at dicks. Other people's dicks, not your brother or your father. I'll just sit here being thankful no ones shaves naked with the door open in my house...
 

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Yes. This site is for looking at dicks. Other people's dicks, not your brother or your father. I'll just sit here being thankful no ones shaves naked with the door open in my house...
Well it didn't damage me. My father has seen me naked many times as I was growing up. This is not unusual in a house where you have boys and men.
 

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Well it didn't damage me. My father has seen me naked many times as I was growing up. This is not unusual in a house where you have boys and men.

No, it isn't if it's accidental or while you're a small kid. If you're still seeing your father's/brother's etc. on a regular basis at an adult age, that is definitely strange.
 
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We didn't walk around naked most of the time in my home but I have seen pretty much my entire family naked at one time or another. Nothing sexual about it, just people living in close quarters. Some people also go to the gym with fathers/brothers/cousins, so seeing them in the shower wouldn't really be that odd. Same with campsites as a previous poster mentioned
 
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