Just a quick topic I thought I would put together regarding relationships in general. I am wondering if anyone has had a problem in a relationship in the past about competition. Now I don't necessarily mean competition in terms of dick size (though this happens I am sure in the gay community) but I mean in any way... for example: 1) In the gay community, one partner being particularly attractive compared to the other. Be it bodily, facially or personality "traits" which seem to draw more attraction than the other 2) Financial competition. This often relates to males who start in well respected, top level and highly paid industries who maybe lose their job or take a pay cut and then their wife/partner earns more than them 3) Intellectual. One partner makes the other feel more inadequate based on the apparent knowledge they possess These are just 3 of a number of competitive traits which can lead to/cause relationships to fail or become unhappy. SO! Have you either had a relationship like this or seen someone else IN the relationship in question? How did you or they end or how did they resolve the issues in their relationship?? Mike Oh and have an awesome day!