I dont know why I even thought of this, but it was my dream last night A gay guy hits on you. You can't decide on your feelings, but here are the two options. 1) Dont mess around with the guy, stay/become heterosexual, spend 40 years living a boring, dull life, married. After 40 years (you are 20 originally) you win the lottery, quit your job, and live the rest of your life happy. 2) Fool around with the guy. Figure out your feelings and become/stay homosexual. Start at local politics, work your way up, and become the first gay president, married to a guy. Which would you choose?