computer repair guy

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    I had my computer repaired by this repair guy, I really want to tell him that I was very flattered by him, but I don't know if he is gay or straight. He was very nice, before he left he asked did I work out. what should i do
     
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    i mean i want to call him and tell him that i was flattered by him
     
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    what should i do
     
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    Nothing!!!, Really did you get any vibes?. I would do nothing.
     
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    tell him yes I work out want to work out together and see where it goes
     
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    i called him two days ago, left a messege saying i had a computer question, he called back but the phone ranged one time really fast then he hanged up, i called back no answer, i called him again today about an hour ago asking the question about a computer problem,and also complimented him on the service he was very nice,
     
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    i may not be explaining it right but I am just so nervous to call him and find out is he gay or straight
     
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    This seems like a porn scenario waiting to happen lol. Unless he said "I know something else that needs repairing" and slow techno music started playing, I'd find it hard to tell if he's gay/str8/bi by only asking you if you worked out. I dunno, try breaking your computer again and see if he comes over again. If he does, at least you were possibly meant to be friends.
     
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    Ask him out if he says no move on
     
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    He said something like dang boy you work out, his hand was like he was sqeezing something
     
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    Something like?

    If you didn't hear it clearly, you need to leave it be.
    He's got your number. You have his. If he needs to do more work on your PC then hire him for that, and that only.

    Nothing's worse than a clingy client that makes sexual advances toward you. Been there - and it's VERY uncomfortable.

    Keep your distance and keep it professional.
    You want to hire someone to fuck - hire a prostitute, not your PC guy.
     
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    We know when this happens too.. We aren't dumb.
    And we charge stupid people more for the hassle of having to return needlessly.
     
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    haha i was thinking that as i was reading the thread
     
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    update on my post, I called him back, and told him the way that I felt, he wasn't bothered or anything, we talked for a while about different stuff, I asked him was he single, he said he was married. I wasn't upset or anything, I just was glad I got it off my chest. He is a very nice laid back guy. I think This experience made me more brave to man up and take risks some time
     
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    I heard a story of a guy who grabbed the crotch of a computer repair guy during a home visit. The repair guy called the police and the customer was arrested.

    Do not grab anyone's crotch unless you are 100000% certain. Maybe touch his arm and see what happens. I don't think that is illegal.
     
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