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I've maintained a Bottom status most of my life for one reason only: when I put on a condom, I lose my erection and can't get it back. This has been the case since my mid-twenties. Now, someone I'm seeing is topping me, but also wants to be topped. I want to satisfy him but am afraid I won't be able to. Anyone else have this happen? Any advice?
 
As an HIV professional, I echo the advice to use PrEP. You will need to be on it 3o0 days before sex without a condom. Financial assistance is available for PrEP in the USA. Send me a message for more info

Jerry
 
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I always use a condom, and often found I'd lost the edge off my erection after I'd rolled it on and couldn't penetrate my partner. One partner suggested I tried Viagra, so now I take 1/2 a tablet an hour before fucking. Over the past decade or so I've fucked hundreds of guys with only a handful of failures.
 
As an HIV professional, I echo the advice to use PrEP. You will need to be on it 3o0 days before sex without a condom. Financial assistance is available for PrEP in the USA. Send me a message for more info

Jerry
Sorry! My post says 300 days and it should be 30(thirty). Sorry about the mistype!!!
 
I always use a condom, and often found I'd lost the edge off my erection after I'd rolled it on and couldn't penetrate my partner. One partner suggested I tried Viagra, so now I take 1/2 a tablet an hour before fucking. Over the past decade or so I've fucked hundreds of guys with only a handful of failures.

Thank you. While I've always had difficulty with condoms, I'm finding my issue is reaching more toward maintaining an erection in general. I did try a half tablet of Viagra. The first time, it worked. The second time, my potential was only good for an hour and didn't get a chance to try the condoms. I may need a full tablet.
 
Is it the tightness of a condom that makes you loose your erection?
That's possible. And possibly a loss of sensation as it goes on? Not sure. Although, I'm also finding that maintaining an erection is just plain getting more difficult these days. Trying Viagra, but I think it has more to do with stress and anxiety these days.