...however, straight men are STUPID...but like i've always said, straight men are dumb and stupid...
Thank you very much for that compliment... as generalization goes, you just might have relatives leading back to a famous German dictator...
Anyway, back on topic... I really like someone's comment that sex with a condom must be rated 10/10 simply because more relaxed you are, and more focused on enjoying yourself and satisfying your partner, and not on other worries, the better the sex becomes...
Ever since I became sexually active, I've mostly been in long-term relationships, always monogamous (as far as I'm concerned anyway, but for the most part can claim the same for my ex-GFs) and I've always been the one insisting on condoms... a few purely sexual relationships and "several-night" stands, I need not stress, have always been "condom-only"...
Before I met my wife, I've only practiced condomless sex with one GF... we've been together for over a year at the time, and she was on the pill...
When I started dating my wife, we used condoms for a few months, along with her being on the pill for years... since we knew from the beginning that it's going to lead to marriage, we discussed it, both got tested and then started having sex without condoms...
Purly physical sensation wise, condomless sex feels much more "direct" so to speak, it's more pleasurable... strictly physically that is... I've never had any problems with being too sensitive, so I wouldn't know anything about condoms providing "extended time"...
I do enjoy more spontaneous sex though... any time, any place, that exact second, without having to worry about putting it on, just putting it in...:smile: