My experiences are similar to ManlyBanisters.
I use them as my sole form of birth control/safe sex, as do all of my partners. I check by reaching down every now and then, but also, most men know when it switches from feeling good to toooooo good(!), and they stop and check. Although, I am always prepared and have Plan B available, and have used it once due to pre-ejaculation slippage.
Yes, yes, way TMI. :smile:
My womanly rules about condoms.
#1, They SUCK, they ruin everything about sex, it should be spontaneous it says you dont trust the guy, it says you dont love cum.
Or, alternatively, using a condom gives the appearance that you value your health and his. Further, licking, sucking, and savoring every drop of jizz residue from his cock after taking off the condom says anything but I "don't love cum".
#3 They will usually irritate a girl, even with plenty of lube.
Non-latex condoms are readily available.
#4 Almost every guy who insists upon a condom is worried about something, either they are huge slut or they think I am, again a huge turn-off to the sex process.
Basically condoms suck, if I am going to have sex with I want to know that I can have it and not get any diseases. I take care of the pregnancy problem and if a girl is relying on a condom then she is stupid or very young with a guy who only pumps a couple of times.
Disagree. I use condoms exclusively and always have throughout my sexual life, which is well over a decade. Indeed, closer to two, ahem. :wink: While I may be stupid, in some respects, maintaining my sexual health is one area where I am not.
Therefore, even when engaged, and close to marriage, or in a multi-year, monogamous relationship, we never had sex without a condom.