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r214

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My boyfriend says that we have to use a condom if we want to have sex. Says that in his past relationships he has always used one, inlcuding one of three years. I feel like it is so impersonal. We have almost been together for a year. We are extreemly serious and have been since day one. Neither of also has any disease to worry about. He insists we use a condom because it is safer. Am I overreacting, he says I am taking it all to personal, or should I be as concerned as him.
 

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Yep, you should definitely be as concerned as he is--at least until you have both been been thoroughly tested several times at substantial intervals...and been entirely monogamous. An "impersonal" condom is a heckuvalot better than a personal STD...! :scared2: