Confession

[BuffMusicIdol]

Oddly, I have to say your plight reminds me a little Donkey in Shrek 2. Remember how he becomes this incredible steed, and how Shrek was tranformed temporarily. It was actually a very good and symbolic lesson for me. I loved the movie.

An obssession which becomes self destructive is an addiction, and hence an illness. Really, I'm not jerking anyone around, and I am serious. If it gets to this point, how about a little help from a professional--a counselor. It is an option. It may help bring some peace.

I suffered with this also. I still do at times. But really, when I look at others, I don't necessarily WANT them to have the biggest cock on the planet, I want them to be who they are, and I don't really care about their cock size. It's me who wants a cock bigger than mine. And now as I am trying to balance all the areas of my life, I'm at peace with my body. And I'm encouraged that those who love me are too. And sometimes, even complete strangers compliment me!!

That's cool.

Just some thoughts.

 

[13788]

H4xXx0rzj00: well, i dont really want the biggest in the world, but i wouldnt mind it

when i say big, i dont mean like, high end average, i mean like, 1 foot or plus. which is twice my size.

at the moment, i would be content with 8-9 inches, but lets say somehow magically, or naturally, or surgically, i get to that size, i would prolly want more and more.

right now, this selfish obsession isnt so bad to a point where its harmful, i just fear it will be since it seems to get worse and worse.

 

[madame_zora]

AT BEST that might get you another inch or so, but some of the after-affects can be bad. This sounds like a mental disorder, body-image associations. It is not unlike anorexia, only with one serious drawback- there is nothing you can DO to force your illusion into reality.

I will repeat- it doesn not matter WHAT SIZE you wish you were, you simply aren't! It doesn't mitigate one iota that you ONLY want to be 8 or 9 inches, you're not! Get over it, get a grip on your life and stop indulging in nonsense!

Honey, I have a feeling I know who you are- don't worry, I won't post my ideas, but if I come across strong, it's because what you are doing is a senseless waste of your goodness. I feel you posted this bravely in an attempt to get answers, so I would be remiss in not giving them as directly as I can. You are simply not due a lot of emotion and sympathy from others for being perfectly normal! I have had this conversation with many, many guys from here in the past, so I can assure you that you are also not alone. I don't understand what exactly goes into the male psyche to make you guys obsess SO FUCKING MUCH about your penises, but I can tell you from a woman's perspective that there isn't much in the world that grosses us out more than a guy who needs a lot of motherly concern over his penis when you trying to have sex! Also, you MUST realsie the incredible social stygmas a woman faces every day, so please don't tell us we just don't understand the pressure you feel, we aren't going to go for that one.

The answer to this, as well as most mental skewings of reality, is a simple one. You are simply not allowed to think that weird. If you choose to do it anyway, your life and the lives of those with whom you are involved will be chaotic and harsh. I hope you will choose mental health, even though it will REQUIRE you to take action. Taking action means DOING SOMETHING, not thinking about things!

 

[jonb]

Jelqing doesn't work. It's your typical "alternative medicine" even claiming an "exotic" origin.

 

[1Cody]

Anything that increases blood flow to the penis will result in a larger size, as well as i found out as a teen, sex. When i don't have sex, i seem to shrivel. If i eat right and exercise and experience intense erections i tend to notice that even in a non erect state that i am larger. I am not involved in sports, or anything that requires a public showing. I think fantasy and enjoyment about size is just that entertainment.

 

[chubsF]

I think that as this continues to go through your mind and you give in to it (eg. searching for different porn when you are unhappy with the man's size) it will grow in obsession. People can offer their opinions and explain things from their view on what you should do, but it's hard for anyone online to have a true sense of what is happening in your life and how sever this is effecting you.

I know you may not want to hear it, or possibly don't have the money for it, but I suggest professional help. They will be more likely to sit down with you and ask the proper leading and probing questions to find the level of information that it is so difficult to give/us to find online. The person you see can give you a new perspective and possibly find a route cause or a way of dealing with this.

It seems like it is beginning stages of OCD to me, but I'm not a professional, nor do I know what to tell you, beside see someone who has the educational background and knowledge of how to put things into perspective or help you find what is causing this mental state. I do know that OCD if endulged by others or yourself can often becomes more life consuming as time goes on.

I would be surprised if there wasnt a clinic nearby you where you could talk to someone about it, or even call an anonymous helpline. Keep searching, someone will be able to help you out.