You guys are giving me amazing information. I really, really appreciated it. I have been hanging out with my friend a lot (its not hard, he's across from me) and I just love to be around him. I have the feeling he really enjoys being around me a lot too, and that is very exciting. He told me when he was younger, he didn't have many friends. But as he grew older, most of his friends were girls.
I know for a fact that he is 100% straight. He is also a virgin (which is kinda cute). He has had a few girlfriends, and from a friend of his I met, she tells me that he "hasn't had good luck with girls".
For about a month or so, he has developed a relationship with a girl. Although they are not under the title of "boyfriend" and "girlfriend", he still considers her one. She lives in his hometown, two hours from here. They talk (well, text each other) all the time. It seems as though they never stop. He speaks highly of her, and not just her, but females all the time. He "loves the idea of being in love". I can tell he really, really, wants a deep relationship with someone, I kinda feel sorry for the poor guy. I know for certain that nothing will happen between us. I still haven't had the guts to tell him i'm "not entirely straight". This is because I want to figure him out more, see how he treats me as of now. And, when I do break the news to him, I'm sure he will react different to me as he is now. This is what is scaring me.
He has mentioned having gay friends before, and claims that it doesn't bother him.
We have come up with a funny and immature event that takes place every tuesday. He and I will wear nothing but a man thong around our dorm just for shits and giggles (we like to creep out the reallllly conservative folk). As corny as this sounds, I actually believe that doing this has made us come closer together. Because think of it, he actually has the mindset where we can both be sitting around, almost naked, and act normal about everything. Its all in good fun and humor. Also, he isn't that shy about being seen naked. I'm a bit more shy about it, but I feel that we have gotten to that point where it doesn't matter to him.
If I were to reveal the truth about myself to him, that could all change. He probably wouldn't be so open and "free" around me, and that hurts way to much to think about. A true friendship relies on loyalty, trust, and honesty. I feel bad for not wanting to tell him the truth, because of the fear of what might happen next.
Thank you for listening.
I know for a fact that he is 100% straight. He is also a virgin (which is kinda cute). He has had a few girlfriends, and from a friend of his I met, she tells me that he "hasn't had good luck with girls".
For about a month or so, he has developed a relationship with a girl. Although they are not under the title of "boyfriend" and "girlfriend", he still considers her one. She lives in his hometown, two hours from here. They talk (well, text each other) all the time. It seems as though they never stop. He speaks highly of her, and not just her, but females all the time. He "loves the idea of being in love". I can tell he really, really, wants a deep relationship with someone, I kinda feel sorry for the poor guy. I know for certain that nothing will happen between us. I still haven't had the guts to tell him i'm "not entirely straight". This is because I want to figure him out more, see how he treats me as of now. And, when I do break the news to him, I'm sure he will react different to me as he is now. This is what is scaring me.
He has mentioned having gay friends before, and claims that it doesn't bother him.
We have come up with a funny and immature event that takes place every tuesday. He and I will wear nothing but a man thong around our dorm just for shits and giggles (we like to creep out the reallllly conservative folk). As corny as this sounds, I actually believe that doing this has made us come closer together. Because think of it, he actually has the mindset where we can both be sitting around, almost naked, and act normal about everything. Its all in good fun and humor. Also, he isn't that shy about being seen naked. I'm a bit more shy about it, but I feel that we have gotten to that point where it doesn't matter to him.
If I were to reveal the truth about myself to him, that could all change. He probably wouldn't be so open and "free" around me, and that hurts way to much to think about. A true friendship relies on loyalty, trust, and honesty. I feel bad for not wanting to tell him the truth, because of the fear of what might happen next.
Thank you for listening.