confidence and penis size

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i'm a fairly confident guy usually, but i know i'd be more confident - especially with women - if i was bigger.

Something that would make me more confident in such a comparatively small area of much life such as picking up women, would undoubtedly rub off into other areas of my life.
 

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Ive never had confidence issues, always careful not to be too confident though I can see that being a turnoff for many people. But I don't think my penis size has anything to do with it, just gives me that extra boost if I ever need it. But size doesnt gurantee anything once you hit the sack :wink:
 

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Confidence has to do with how you feel about yourself. Being stocky and or a little overweight all my life I have never been real confident. Yes, my meat is bigger than avg but if it is in your pants and no one can see it, then how would it make you more confident. Lots of guys out there bigger than myself so just because I am bigger than avg it doesn't mean that my sexual partners haven't had bigger and enjoyed them more. Yes, I have had several sexual partners, probably more than the avg male, and I don't remember a disasterous sexual encounter. And yes there are many males that has had a hundred more sexual partners than myself. So what confidence I do have comes from being a older more mature thinking male. When I slim down to the weight I want to be, then I will be more confident.
 

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I'm a very confident person in general, in all sorts of situations; part of that is because I see myself as an intelligent, socially adept, competent person, but I have to admit, part of it is due to physical things.

Strangely, the ONE thing that tends to make me nervous and jittery is having people comment on my penis/my bulge in public.

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Confidence goes hand in hand with the total sum of one's life experiences.

When I was a child I was scared of certain things.

As a Teen ager I was worried about how I would live, i. e. what my vocation would be. Additionally, I often worried about how I would act with girls.

As a young male in the Navy I often was concerned about what I was accomplishing with my life.

And on and on. The secret of success is to take the things that happen in life and proceed on. Take the positive and learn from your own mistakes.

Not always easy. In summary, never look back, but always strive to to better today, tomorrow and in the future.

Most important, never, ever let anyone tell you that you are no good!!!!!!

I have always refrained from "I am just............."

I regard myself as a well adjusted male and I enjoy life as my signature indicates.

Have a great day.
 

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I believe that this is something that is different from person to person. I have never heard anyone say that I have a big/huge/large penis, eventhough I might be slightly over average. My size therefore doesn't give me more confidence.

I think that I might be less "afraid" of comments about size if I was very huge and always would get comments on this topic. It doesn't make you great in bed, but I might help you win some points right from the start.
 

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I think even if you mean purely "sexual confidence", size alone is no guarantee. Women respond to a host of signals/stimuli from their "targets of interest" and I think penis size, while a factor, is down the list. Not to say there aren't women who are terrified at the prospect of an encounter with a really big one, or disappointed and dismayed by the sight of a little one, and such will certainly have an effect on one's confidence.
 

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My current bf is the biggest and the most confident of the 3 guys I've been with. He really likes being in control and taking charge. I don't really know if he's confident because he's hung though. I do know if I were him and I did to me what he does to me, I'd be confident too :tongue: :confused: :tongue:

It is often said that guys with big ones are more confident.

If this is the case for you, is it only in situations where penis size is an issue that you are more confident in, or does it extend to situations where its not an issue and people concerned do not know the size of your penis and do not care what size it is?

Do you think that smaller or average guys can develop this degree of confidence, so in effect they act like they have a big dick?
 

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It is often said that guys with big ones are more confident.

If this is the case for you, is it only in situations where penis size is an issue that you are more confident in, or does it extend to situations where its not an issue and people concerned do not know the size of your penis and do not care what size it is?

Do you think that smaller or average guys can develop this degree of confidence, so in effect they act like they have a big dick?
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I partly grew up with a stern, overbearing step-dad and two older step-brothers that pretty much made me feel ashame and embrassed behind the size of my penis being large; and besides the fact it was discovered and known I was having sexual encounters by the age of 11 and 12 and fathered a child at 13.
My step-dad even thretened to have me clipped or fixed if he caught me messin' around or put me in a boy's home. His way of keeping me humble and punishments that belittled my confidence.
So at this pt. and given situation, a watchful eye was kept on me (sorta like under lock & key).
My step-brothers were very cruel with teasing me and making fun about my gential size too.
I understand now, it was maybe some jealousy, but they still treated me like a freak.
I hated the fact I had to share a bedroom with them because they said and did things to me that would make any body lose confidence in themselves and they dared me to say anything about it.
They often would lie on me and say something to pops who would take me to the basement, make me strip buck-naked and whip me with his belts.
Sometimes, he'd come in our bedroom and pull me from the bed, make me remove my boxers or jockey strip in front of my brothers and whip me while they watched.
He never rarely whipped them for anything.
He seemed to take some real pleasure whipping me all over my body that included often my gential area.

I cried a many a night after one of his belt-beatings and harsh words and punishments.
He was even subject to put me on punishment if he could see an imprint
on my gentials in my pants or an erection.
He told me my gentials were overly big because they were crused by the devil and his workshhop.
My step-dad was also considered a part-time preacher if that says anything.
It's taken me a long time to feel some degrees of self confidence about sexuality period.
I'm not aware nor have given any real thoughts how small/average guys act like they have big dicks.... would that be a cockey like attitude...a prick in other words...I've sure seem plenty of these in life.
I guess self-confidence can be built upon anything one desires...so if it's their penis...so be it. But there are many more suitable elements to build one's confidence other than a dick.:wink:
Gee I got kinda long winded on this...TMI (too much info about me):eek:
Thx for asking.
Whopper-lee
 

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I don't think my personality type is affected by penis size at all. I happen to be introverted with some social anxiety, having a large cock hanging between my legs hasn't helped or hindered. Dealing with people wears me out, my penis would be the furthest thing from my mind in those situations.
 

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I really don't know, not having had any other size.

I think that recently I am much more confident about being naked, thanks to my size (and about showing off in the lpsg hehe!).

I don't really think size affect my day to day behaviours.