I just learned from the size queen thread that telling a man he doesn't measure up shatters his confidence. It made me wonder what shatters a woman's confidence? We are barraged everyday by ads for padded bras, lip plumpers, nail salons, high heels, diet pills, exercise videos, spanx, eyelash extentions, hair extentions, plastic surgery ... So obviously we are too small on top, our lips are too thin, our nails are too short, we are too short, we are too fat, we are too flabby, our eyelashes are thin, our hair is too short. Yet we don't take it personally. I can't think of any one single thing that anyone could say to me that would shatter my confidence. What do you other women think?