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There are obviously a good deal of guys on this site with huge cocks some with above average and some kinda lacking in size. Guys with huge cocks (maybe 9.5 inches or more) do you feel more confident in your ability to please a girl or guy (whichever your preference is) due to your larger size? Do you feel as though it gives you a big advantage when it comes to satisfying? Guys that maybe lacking in size ( considering the site where on im gonna say 5.5 - 7 inches) do you feel confident in your ability to be able to satisfy a girl or guy as well or better than a huge guy? Ever done it? And guys that are above average (maybe 7.5- 8.5 inches again considering the site where on) how confident are you in your ability to satisfy a girl or guy better than someone who is huge or lacking alittle in size? Which would you feel more confident about being better than?
 

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im 6.5 med thick, my BF cums most of the time if i top him and vice versa. he is 6.5 thick and i cum when i bottom sometimes... sometimes we dont cum while we bottom because we want our turn to get off with being on top. i guess it comes down to the connection the couple has during intercourse. if se is hot and intense for both im sure size does not matter.
 

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I'm confident because I now understand that the most important things to satisfying a woman are her level of arousal and how comfortable she feels. I didn't always understand these things and just focused on using my partners cervix as a punching bag...
 

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There are obviously a good deal of guys on this site with huge cocks some with above average and some kinda lacking in size. Guys with huge cocks (maybe 9.5 inches or more) do you feel more confident in your ability to please a girl or guy (whichever your preference is) due to your larger size? Do you feel as though it gives you a big advantage when it comes to satisfying? Guys that maybe lacking in size ( considering the site where on im gonna say 5.5 - 7 inches) do you feel confident in your ability to be able to satisfy a girl or guy as well or better than a huge guy? Ever done it? And guys that are above average (maybe 7.5- 8.5 inches again considering the site where on) how confident are you in your ability to satisfy a girl or guy better than someone who is huge or lacking alittle in size? Which would you feel more confident about being better than?

My huge girth more then makes up for the length......
Not very sexually confident due to lack of experience ..
 

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I never was real confident in my penis size until recently. The more girls I talk to about size I realize its not everything. I used to think I was small (6.5x5.5) but now I see that's not. Its at least not a big deal to the girls I've been with who all tell me they have been with larger guys but always want to get together with me and have sex again and again. They also don't like listening to guys complain about their size. When I show im confident in my size and in other words it is what it is, it's a turn on to them.
 

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I guess I fall in your above avg category. And yea. Ill admit. Anyways wanted to be bigger. But when the pleasing a woman part finally came to me, it wasn't about cock size. It's about reading your partner. Control your cock to last. Read your partner. Equals good sex. (I will admit, lying or not, a well placed "your so big" goes a long way.
 

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Well I'm average length but my girth enables some realOMG that feals fucking good reactions, I'm confident that my dicks great at the job it's designed for so I can confident whip it out and say wanna ride? Though I think gurls not only like the chance of having a big cock to play with but a man with confidence in everything rely get woman going I find .
 

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I don't think i have all that much confidence in my ability to please a woman. Not too sure how much confidence vs an open mind even has to do with it.
 

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I imagine there will be some overlap / correlation between penis size and sexual confidence. But it's not totally deterministic ...

I'm more confident than average despite being just 7". I've known very hung guys who were shy / incapable. And smaller guys who were very confident.

A lot of sex is actually about minds. It's about contact, and the balance between gentleness and aggression. Touch, rhythm, pace. Tastes and smells. Sweat and energy. Togetherness.

For some women, and men, a man will be more attractive if he wears a particular hat, or particular sunglasses / spectacles, shoes ... Some of it is style. It's how comfortable you are, doing what you do ...

:smile:
 

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There are obviously a good deal of guys on this site with huge cocks some with above average and some kinda lacking in size. Guys with huge cocks (maybe 9.5 inches or more) do you feel more confident in your ability to please a girl or guy (whichever your preference is) due to your larger size? Do you feel as though it gives you a big advantage when it comes to satisfying? Guys that maybe lacking in size ( considering the site where on im gonna say 5.5 - 7 inches) do you feel confident in your ability to be able to satisfy a girl or guy as well or better than a huge guy? Ever done it? And guys that are above average (maybe 7.5- 8.5 inches again considering the site where on) how confident are you in your ability to satisfy a girl or guy better than someone who is huge or lacking alittle in size? Which would you feel more confident about
being better than?

So 7.5 to 8.5 has been reduced to "above average "?
 
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So 7.5 to 8.5 has been reduced to "above average "?


On this site? Quite possibly. Check out the gallery of some of these guys. Obviously 7.5 to 8.5 is normal overall in society i just through out those measurements as a scale to use.
 

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I never was real confident in my penis size until recently. The more girls I talk to about size I realize its not everything. I used to think I was small (6.5x5.5) but now I see that's not. Its at least not a big deal to the girls I've been with who all tell me they have been with larger guys but always want to get together with me and have sex again and again. They also don't like listening to guys complain about their size. When I show im confident in my size and in other words it is what it is, it's a turn on to them.

It sounds like those women have been lying to you. Most women are size-queens. Most women want at least 6.5-7 inches in length and 5.5 inches in girth - but preferably bigger than that.
There are very few women in this world who genuinely don't care about penis size.
 

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It sounds like those women have been lying to you. Most women are size-queens. Most women want at least 6.5-7 inches in length and 5.5 inches in girth - but preferably bigger than that.
There are very few women in this world who genuinely don't care about penis size.

Vagina's are on average 5" deep.

Most women don't like having their cervix's used as punching bags.

I can tell you from experience that a 6.5-7 inch penis can hit the cervix/bottom out every stroke.


So I'll go out on a limb and say that all women want a penis that isn't going to hurt them, otherwise they are concerned with the chemistry they have with their partner.

Get laid a few times and report back ;)
 

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Vagina's are on average 5" deep.

Most women don't like having their cervix's used as punching bags.

I can tell you from experience that a 6.5-7 inch penis can hit the cervix/bottom out every stroke.


So I'll go out on a limb and say that all women want a penis that isn't going to hurt them, otherwise they are concerned with the chemistry they have with their partner.

Get laid a few times and report back ;)


Just goggled "average vagina size" and your measurements are not accurate. The article says that the average vagina depth when unaroused is 2 3/4 inches to 3 1/4 inches and when aroused it expands to 4 1/4 inches to 4 3/4 inches in depth.
 

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Still a 7 inch cock is more than enough....and I am 8 inches long, cant see my cock going in all the way.


Just goggled "average vagina size" and your measurements are not accurate. The article says that the average vagina depth when unaroused is 2 3/4 inches to 3 1/4 inches and when aroused it expands to 4 1/4 inches to 4 3/4 inches in depth.
 

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Just goggled "average vagina size" and your measurements are not accurate. The article says that the average vagina depth when unaroused is 2 3/4 inches to 3 1/4 inches and when aroused it expands to 4 1/4 inches to 4 3/4 inches in depth.


Lol, thanks for correcting me and strengthening my argument.


BTW, here's my source, which I apparently miss-quoted.

Notes on Genital Dimensions
 
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8x6 here and very confident. havent had any complaints in the sack. not every woman out there enjoy having huge cocks inside of them. but thank god for those that do. god bless you all!
 

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I'm about 8" x 6" (I might measure just below 8" if the room temp is cold) and I went through most of life totally oblivious of my size because 1) I never measured it and 2) I never compared it to average. If there is any measurable physical attribute that makes me not as confident as I should be, it's height. I find that many (but not all) women are more attracted to guys who are 6 ft. tall or taller, which doesn't work in my favor since I'm straight up average at 5' 9". I don't think it has anything to do with them secretly thinking those guys have longer penises or any other conspiracy theories... They just find being with a taller guy more satisfying, and I've had a few female friends of mine who are otherwise not shallow about anything else and I thought were otherwise open-minded until then tell me this is their unspoken rule when weeding out potential boyfriends. Of course, it peaked my curiosity as to how those guys stacked up to me down there, and reading between the lines, those guys were average as average comes. It's too bad, because they're missing out. I'm still a virgin and I'm just revving to go in the bedroom. It's surprising how many well endowed virgins I've talked to here who experience the same sort of issue with being able to stand out. If only our pants advertised the sizes underneath, too haha

Seeing what average truly looks like, I've nothing to worry about. But my potential is going to waste here too because I just keep meeting girls who I'm not tall enough for.
 
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I'm 6" and I feel confident. Also, I tend to consider myself average rather than lacking in size, but that's just a personal opinion I guess :)