Confident (cocky) Young Guys

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I've been somewhat surprised (and flattered) over the past year or so by the number of young, young guys (ages 18-22ish) who have no problem flirting with me and/or my friends. Whether at a ball game or at the shopping mall, the guys seem to either be playfully flirting, or definitely willing to pull the trigger on a 30+ year old woman.

Perhaps this has always been the case, or it's more "acceptable" now with the whole Cougar/MILF thing.

In my experience it's both white and black guys, with the black guys being a bit more blunt and semi-crude at times.

Is porn influencing this, or do the younger guys really wanna go there?
 

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Id say porn has been more of a qualifier than an influence on this, in that plenty of young men have always held a candle for the cougar/MILF crowd and were underground due to unrealistic age and beauty standards being pushed as their goal, as well as a general insinuation of older women not being interested in younger men outside of statutory scandal.
That, and within the realm of casual sex most mens frustrations and obstacles stem from youthful insecurities and strategies employed by women, so you and your friends represent a still attractive segment of women whose priorities have most likely changed to a construct more in line with young men's sexual aims.
 

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Also keep in mind, men are increasingly realizing the temporary nature of women's appearance and bodies when it comes to aging, childrearing and the like, so an in shape, well put together woman of 35 and up gets more kudos for choice genetics or effort put into physical appearance than some 18-25 yr old woman that could verily roll out of bed looking like a model.
 

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When I was that age I really wanted to go there but not necessarily with every woman with whom I flirted. Sometimes flirting is just a feel good ego kick given and received with no other intent.

More acceptable? I think it's just less secret. The sexual revolution of sexual liberation rolls on. :cool:
 
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I would say it's a combination of elements, rather than one. Various types of media have openly sexualized almost everyone, and everything. Compounding that is the online support, and endorsement from (sometimes) tens of thousands to millions of people.

So, 70 years ago a 20 year year old would tend to keep his eyes and comments to himself. Now? MILF's are a hot ticket item. Look at Desperate Housewives, or any other TV show. MILF is a category on almost every mainstream porn site. The idea of the attractive, strong, sexy mom or mature woman is no longer quiet, shy, jerk off material for boys who would never admit to being attracted to anything but their similarly aged girlfriend.

Today's youth is ..empowered? to like what they enjoy, just like everyone else is. If there are millions of people online discussing, promoting, showcasing and masturbating to something, then they can as well, right?

For myself, I've experienced the same attentions, but as being perceived as a DILF. It can be a bit weird, but as long as they aren't underage I consider it as flattery, and natural. It is a win against ageism as well. I certainly don't mind that.
 

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For myself, I've experienced the same attentions, but as being perceived as a DILF. It can be a bit weird, but as long as they aren't underage I consider it as flattery, and natural. It is a win against ageism as well. I certainly don't mind that.
You think it was really DILFery or perhaps just girls with a thing for older guys?