Confidential hook up

[AlexHoff180]

Hello,

I am bisexual, but have only been with women and I am deeply in the closet and I am not in a place to come out anytime in the near future, but I am really interested in having sex with men. I mostly want to top, but would also like to bottom and give a blow job. I am between 22-26, but I am attracted to men near my age as well as older men, especially in their 30's. I am wondering if you all have any recommendations for ways to arrange hookups in a safe and confidential way, whether you recommend certain apps or places, etc. I have looked into apps like Grindr using a fake name (like I have on this profile), but even then I am concerned about uploading my picture. I am also not into really feminine men and am more on the masculine side myself, so I have a feeling that a lot of the gay bars and clubs wouldn't be right for me either so I am kind of lost and would appreciate any advice!

 

[MeatStickSupreme]

Your best bet is Grindr. Great for anonymous, no string attached hookups. Just make sure to be safe. *
ALWAYS wear protection, dont let anyone convince you not to. Meet in a public place first like a bar or shopping mall. Make sure you dont get catfished, do a quick video call beforehand. If youre scared about swapping photos, use the expiring media feature. it blocks them from access after a single view. Also if youre taking nude pics, keep your face out of it and vice versa.

Also there are tons of masc 4 masc gay guys around, so maybe the gay bars and clubs could also be a good fit.

Good luck!

 

[678wsb]

I'm in the same boat as you. Nervous to take the first step.