Conflicted about sexual attraction

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A 20 year old having sex with a 16 year old is no different than a 16 year old having sex with a 16 year old, except in the former case, one possibly gets the anxieties of having broke the law.

Yes, 20 y/o with 13 y/o is quite a different story, but even then, plenty of people have been molested or even raped, and lived a perfectly normal, healthy life, with normal relationships, whilst people who never had anything done to them have terribly neurotic relationships. Sex is not the only component of a relationship.

Both the first and second paragraphs of what you say are untrue. These are lies, but you have to tell them, and since we're online it means you're really just lying to yourself. Why do you have to lie to yourself about this?

Also do you personally know people who were molested as children and also know that they are living perfectly normal lives? Look closer.

I can tell you with certainty that you don't, unless you molested them yourself and you want to believe that they are living perfectly normal lives.
 
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Both the first and second paragraphs of what you say are untrue. These are lies, but you have to tell them, and since we're online it means you're really just lying to yourself. Why do you have to lie to yourself about this?

well shit, since you says so. :rolleyes:
P.S. in some countries, not only what I said is true, they are also legal acts. So I guess girls in denmark are different than girls in America.

I can tell you this, I know plenty of people that had sex at 16 or 17 with their 19 - 22 y/o bfs. I lived in a navy town most of my life.
They turned out fine. :eek:

Also do you personally know people who were molested as children and also know that they are living perfectly normal lives? Look closer.
The topic child sexual molestation doesn't come up often with people around the turkey dinner, but I'll bring it up tomorrow.

But I know one for sure. He's a father of four, an engineer for Boeing and has been married for 11 years.

He is however a Christian, so I guess in that respect you are right. He is screwed in the head. Must've been the molestation. :rolleyes:

I can tell you with certainty that you don't,
Now looky what you done. want me to introduce you to this man?

unless you molested them yourself and you want to believe that they are living perfectly normal lives.
Hmm maybe you are right. My first gf was 16, I was 20. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 24. But I did kiss her alot and even touched her breasts and pussy.

OH GOD!! What HAVE I DONE!!?? HER LIFE IS IN SHAMBLES!!
She got a poli-sci degree from Landers, and is happily married!!
The guilt is killing me! POLI-SCI?