Conflicted...

[ShowMi]

Hi all~ I am a 24 yr old female. I have been with my bf for a really long time but after all these years I have to sadly admit that the sex is not doing it for me. No matter how hard he tries it just can’t seem to hit my spot and I think it’s mainly because he is on the smaller side. The only way I can orgasm with him is by being on top and doing all the work. I've never been with anyone that is huge but my current bf is def the smallest I’ve been with. It is frustrating to a point where I find myself craving for some mind blowing / "fulfilling" sex constantly, even when I am with him. I’m not sure what's stopping me...my conscience or lack of opportunity for no string attached sex.

 

[Pecker]

Welcome.

 

[D_Paddy Gonia]

Good on you for realizing your sexual frustrations before you married this person. Regardless of what people say, sex is a very important part of a relationship and not being fulfilled can result in some really big problems later down the road. There isn't much he can do about his size unless he is determined and patient. As far as orgasming goes, can he make you cum orally? Also realize that your only 24. There are plenty of other guys who can fulfill your needs emotionally and sexually. If your not happy theres not much sense in staying in the relationship, regardless of why your unhappy. Hope that helps...

 

[cjc3552]

Hello and welcome.

 

[TheRob]

well it's like this
don't cheat on him
and ifyou break up with him don't tell him it's cus you arn't happy with his size

there that's my sage advice

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Welcome.:smile:

 

[MrGoodDate]

Hmmmmm.
The main sex organ is the one above the shoulders.
Perchance you should work on your relationship during the daytime.