Confused about my friend / boyfriend

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2 b honest I don't know, I usually have guys come on to me rather than the other way round and when I see him pulling I think well I don't see any harm in it I guess....

But if I was 'with' him properly I don't think I'd even be interested in anyone else, cos I'd know I'd always be going home with him.... oh that was soppy....

matt, I am from the States. Would you mind defining the term "pulling" or "pull" as you have used it in this thread?. Thanks
 

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I think you should be straight to the point and honest with him (and yourself). Otherwise, your just wasting your time (and his).

I find in all aspects of life it's best to be honest and forthright. Keeps things simple.
 

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Pulling or to pull means to hook up with someone, think it comes from pulling someone to one side (possibly) so if u see someone you fancy and they like u and then you either go off together or take someone home you have pulled lol, use it where u live u never know it might spread!
 

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AWESOME!!!
I am so happy for you both!

:smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile:​

Well I've just had the talk with him.....

It went well, I asked him where are we? He looked at me blankly and asked what do i mean. I explained how I felt about him and he just kissed me! I mean full on mach me!

I had to pull back for air eventually and said so... and before I could finish my sentence he told me to Stop, Chev (my best mate) told me everything last week! I've been waiting for you to say something for months. I said well why the hell didn't you! Apparently until my mate had said something he thought I was only interested in fucking him and didn't want more!!

He was going through what I was going thru!!!! I can't believe it!

Fuck the mushy stuff after we, well you know we just laid there in each others arms and I cried! Then he cried! I honestly don't think I've had better sex or felt this fucking happy before!!!!!!

We're going out tomorrow nite and I said so am I coming home with you tomorrow and he just looked at and said "Duh!"

Mattie B (the happiest he's been in 2 years!!!)
 

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AWWWWWHHHHHHHHHH Im sooooo happy for you Mattie B!!!!!!!!

Your story gave me a lot of hope......hopefully its my turn soon......

However I actually have some set back on my story...:( my mate is in NZ and I moved to Syd from NZ 3 months ago, and just found out today my mate has been seeing this guy quite seriously now for the last 3 months.....I dunno, maybe its only because Im not in the same Freaken country as he is anymore!!!!! Im so homesick right now.....

Anyway...YAY for you :D