Confused as fuck about my sexual orientation

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I have zero social skills with women so it is no surprise to me that I have had no sexual encounters with any women. I love big ass women and fit women and I do jerk off to straight porn. I do however have noticed that my preference of videos do have some underlying gay tones to it.

For example- bbc on milfs, shane diesel, mmf, muscular men featured in the movie etc

Also, sometimes when i see a big cock on this site I would ove nothing more than to try sucking it. I do however have no interesting in fucking or being fucked by a man.

I am just very confused an I think maybe my lack of social skills with women led to this. I am so unsure, perhaps and outsiders perspective could answer this question for me?
 

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So you're a virgin? If you're confused, there's only 1 way to find out.

I had sex with women until I was just shy of my 22nd. Had my 1st hot stud and my question was answered. Sounds like you want women more...so try to meet one. Maybe place a CL ad, that's the easy way.
 

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If you have an urge to suck dick and so forth, you're probably somewhat bi-sexual at the very least.

Personally, I can't get off on porn unless the guy has a dick that's bigger than mine. So you're "underlying gay tones" to the porn you watch I don't think is that much of a big deal. But if you want to take the next step and actually have physical contact with those guys, then you sound bi.
 

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probably reveal its intentions for you eventually
Patience, some it may take to age 4o odd,.. i believe
Real confusion may set in once you start experimenting??
mmmmm dread the thought myself ..
 

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Honestly? don't think about what make you horby but who see at your side, in your next future do you see a guy or a girl?
Answer to this question and you will know your sex orientation
 

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Honestly? don't think about what make you horby but who see at your side, in your next future do you see a guy or a girl?
Answer to this question and you will know your sex orientation

How exactly does that make sense coming from someone who identifies as a balanced bisexual?
 

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As others have said, only one way to find out. Social skills can be learned easily, you just need to go out and meet more people. There are plenty of women out there, if you look hard enough you will find one that you get along with.

As for men, if you notice, there are percentages for straight and gay for a good reason. It is perfectly normal and not confusing at all that someone who is mostly straight likes to blow cocks as well. That is why they go for the 80%-20%. Lots of grey areas in between straight, bi and gay.

But again, if you have any of those urges, you have to try it to find out what you really like.
 
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ok. if it was a shop, you would try on a few things before you got the one you liked. do the same with a woman and a man. then you will REALLY find out what is best for you.
what have you got to loose.