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So, this girl that cuts my hair, I'v known her for about a year now and I'v been trying to just hang out with her and she wont give me the time of day, but she says I'm cute and a great find. Is there anything I'm doing wrong? or should I just let this go. I'm very tempted to text her a pic of my cock and see what she thinks of it, but I don't want to lose her as a friend and a good hair stylest.:frown1:
 

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I don't think sending her a photo of your cock will help at all and you could offend her. Why not just keep the conversation light and fun when your getting a hair cut then after you've done that a few times, when she's finish your cut and about to leave ask her is she's free for coffee sometime
 

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A good stylist is hard to find. If I was your stylist, and you showed me a picture of your penis you'd be banned from my establishment. I would feel violated, whether I liked you or not. If I was remotely interested, you'd have just blown it. I suspect she isn't interested in you. Maybe it's because she'd rather have you as a client. Maybe it's because she isn't available (which doesn't necessarily mean she's in a relationship). Maybe she thinks you're cool, but just not her type. If she's been rebuffing you for a year, let it go! Find someone more responsive.

EDIT: I'm seriously trying to figure out how you get from THIS...

(you) Hey, you want to hang out sometime? Just to chill?
(her) No, sorry. I can't. Thanks. See you in two weeks for your next cut?

...to THIS...
(you) Here's picture mail of my genitals! Enjoy!


I don't understand what would make you want to do that.
 
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Stylists are friendly and flirty to get tips. If you've asked her to do stuff a few times and she's turned you down, she probably is just interested in cutting your hair. And sending her a picture of your cock is a bad idea.
 

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So, this girl that cuts my hair, I'v known her for about a year now and I'v been trying to just hang out with her and she wont give me the time of day, but she says I'm cute and a great find. Is there anything I'm doing wrong? or should I just let this go. I'm very tempted to text her a pic of my cock and see what she thinks of it, but I don't want to lose her as a friend and a good hair stylest.:frown1:

Dude...you do NOT text girls pictuires of your dick... No matter what... it is NOT a good opener.

And in some places, its illegal.

Its like you said you were thinking of flashing her next time you see her... creepy and borderline sexual offender.


Maybe the reason she's not into you is because your the kind of guy who thinks sending girl's unsolicited pictures of your dick is a smooth move...

think again.

think hard.
 

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So, this girl that cuts my hair, I'v known her for about a year now and I'v been trying to just hang out with her and she wont give me the time of day, but she says I'm cute and a great find. Is there anything I'm doing wrong? or should I just let this go.
Let It Go! She is providing a service and works for tips. Of course she is nice and maybe a bit flirty. :rolleyes: :duh:
I'm very tempted to text her a pic of my cock and see what she thinks of it, but I don't want to lose her as a friend and a good hair stylest.:frown1:

:wtf1: Dude, if she said no to your face she is NOT interested in your dick. Do Not send her a dick pic! :cool: :rolleyes: :duh:

A good stylist is hard to find. If I was your stylist, and you showed me a picture of your penis you'd be banned from my establishment. I would feel violated, whether I liked you or not. If I was remotely interested, you'd have just blown it. I suspect she isn't interested in you. Maybe it's because she'd rather have you as a client. Maybe it's because she isn't available (which doesn't necessarily mean she's in a relationship). Maybe she thinks you're cool, but just not her type. If she's been rebuffing you for a year, let it go! Find someone more responsive.

EDIT: I'm seriously trying to figure out how you get from THIS...
(you) Hey, you want to hang out sometime? Just to chill?
(her) No, sorry. I can't. Thanks. See you in two weeks for your next cut?
...to THIS...
(you) Here's picture mail of my genitals! Enjoy!

I don't understand what would make you want to do that.

My guess is he thinks he has a large penis and all women want a large penis even if it's attached to a dick like him. :tongue: Or he is just young, dumb, and full of cum.
 

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Wow, alot of you jumped to conclusions that are way off. 1, I never brought up the idea to her of wanting to have sex, just goto a movie as friends. 2, I'm not going to just flash her, I respect her to much We barely ever talk I"m a shy guy in person.
 

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Wow, alot of you jumped to conclusions that are way off. 1, I never brought up the idea to her of wanting to have sex, just goto a movie as friends. 2, I'm not going to just flash her, I respect her to much We barely ever talk I"m a shy guy in person.

I did not jump to any conclusion. YOU SAID you were thinking of sending her a picture of your dick.

How is that any different from FLASHING her?

Its not only stupid and classless.... its UBER CREEPY.


Whatever habits of thought you have developed that give you ideas like this... CHANGE THEM.