I NEED ADVICE!!!!!! PLEASE!!!! This is driving me insane! I probably know the answer BUT..... Picture it........Friends of 10 yrs, one gay, one straight. We met ten years ago in a dance company. After we both left the company I moved back down south and he moves back north. We wrote many letters and spoke on the phone often. He now lives in my hometown with his wife of 6 years, they have 2 adorable children and are basically living the american dream (for str8s anyway). But I have always questioned his sexuality. Here is my case: 1) The letters he sent me before he married were always saying how he was looking at the photo we took in NYC and cannot wait until we live together so we can be the Golden Guys. 2) He calls and tells me to watch Live Nude Girls, he then tells me he is the Green Peace guy and Im Kim Cattralls character...in the movie he comes in to the house of a sad Kim and they have wild sex on the table. 3) He is now married and moves to my hometown. Our friendship has grown stronger, he now opens up more. 4) I see a common friend of ours out and about who was visiting TX, he asks how our friend is doing. I tell him he is married with children. He then tells me....wow ...i wont say anything else but i feel sorry for him (they attended the same high school and were best friends for years) 5) Sex questions begin. He asks what I do in bed, how it is done. Do I like certain things, etc.... 6) We share our penis size and seems entranced......commenting on it. (im 9 inches) He is ALWAYS talking about big his dick is. 7) Flashes me his penis alone in a hotel room on a trip, on three occasions. Once he got hard and stood in front of the tv so I could see, laughed and then walked away. 8) Constantly talking about getting his dicked sucked...he says i dont care i just need lips. 9) Always bringing up he is secure in his manhood, saying im straight and makes comments on some guy or a dick he has seen in porn. Tells me every time he jacks off. 10) Sitting with him on the plane, he gets hard and makes it pulse...he made sure I saw it cause he told me to look. 11) He will mess around for instance I will be sitting and he will get behind me and push his dick into my back. 12) Will wear running pants to work (we both teach dance) and pull them way up to his armpits and make me look at his bulge. 13) Said his wife is not the same person he married. 14) Complains about sex life. 15) Always saying he will never cheat but Damn I need to have sex or get my dick sucked 16) Handed me a dvd today, I watch it and it is him jacking off. Went on about his business like it was nothing at all, even joking and laughing about it. I told him that it was hot, he could have a career and that if he were gay we would get it on. And that is it in a nutshell. Best friends of 10 yrs and im so freaking confused or am i? Have you experienced anything like this?