Confused Need Womens Advice

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  1. socalstick

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    I am confused and need to get some women's opinions. I am a happy married man with and average size penis just under 6.5" long and medium thickness. Becasue I am a guy I always have obsessed about my cock and wish it measureed up to the hung guys here. Believe me I don't have one single gay bone in my body but there is something about looking at huge cocks that makes me wish I had one.

    My wife and I have great sex and are very open about things. She has plenty of toys and gets herself off all the time which I think it hot. I also have no problem masturbating in from of here and we often talk about sex very openly. I also have a penis pump and enjoy pumping it up nice and thick because of my size inferiority complex. And for those of you who don't think it works...it does..at least for a few hours of fun.

    The other night when we had sex after I had been pumping for a while, I kept trying to getting my thicker penis into her and she said it hurt and it took a while to ease in. Believe me with my size that comment hasn't been made before. We had sex and I could definately tell she was a bit uncomfortable but we both got off.

    We talked for a bit after sex and I talked to her about my cock and how I wish it were bigger. She said that she didn't want it bigger and that it was the right size. We also talked about how she masterbates and she said she uses her vibes and fingers her clit and never slides the vibe or her fingers in. I think she uses 7" ones.

    So I guess I am confused. When most women masterbate do you just rub your finger on your clit and don't usually put anything in? Do most girls even like a bigger cock? My wife says she usually can come 3-4 time when we have sex. I can last long and we bang hard but I have always felt subconcious about my size and inadequacy. I was really shocked to hear her say my thicker cock hurt her a bit. Quite, honestly it was a bit of a turn on. I just have never felt I had enough cock for her.

    So ladies what can you help me make of all this? And is it kind of a myth or lie about big cocks that all girls crave them? Us guys are obsessed with them I think and I'm not sure now if girls even need them since my wife usually just rubs her clit!

    Ideas?
     
  2. Dr Rock

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    everyone's different.
     
  3. scotlad

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    Girls/women in my experience dont really think about size when they're getting off on it as long as they do,trust me ive bin wiv women who have had bigger but if you're doing what they enjoy, you must being doing ok (i used to be obsessed with size but as you get older you realize theres a lot more involved in having a good sexual & loving relationship than than thinking you shud be bigger etc.
     
  4. madame_zora

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    Three things:

    1). We've done this to death so if you're not getting responses it's because every single guy in the world has exactly the same concerns and it's come up a lot already. Everyone's different, everyone likes something different, you've got to learn to like yourself and your body as it is.

    2). This is the Large Penis Support Group, I'll never understand why a guy would come here for reassurance! The sizes quoted here are in no way representative of the normal population. If you are concerned about your size, why would you go out of your way to surround yourself with larger guys? I know, confronting fears is a good way to dispell them, but it still seems to put my brain on "tilt".

    3). Average size is about 5.5", so it sounds like you're above average, feel better?
     
  5. BobLeeSwagger

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    I'm sure you know by now that this worry of yours is pretty irrational. If you can make her come 3 or 4 times each time you have sex, you are probably doing better than almost any better hung guy would do with her. Probably even better than most hung guys can manage with any woman.

    And if she doesn't want you to be bigger, then you really shouldn't want to be. I'm not sure what we could say to convince you, but I envy a guy (1) that can please his wife that reliably, and (2) found a woman he can be that open and honest with. That's a very rare combination. Maybe guys here should be asking YOU for advice.
     
  6. wonderland

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    First of all every woman is different. Sounds like your wife likes you just as you are and worrying about your size is a terrible waste of time. I feel it is safe to say that every woman would love to have a man make her cum just once while having sex let alone 3 or 4 times.
     
  7. Cottonfield

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    Probably because you're not a guy. Guys seek credentials from those who have credentials. If you're anxious about your baseball skill you don't care a lot about the approval you might get from people who can't play baseball well, and you don't seek it out. But it would mean a heck of a lot if some major-leaguer "validated" you. It's a guy thing.
     
  8. madame_zora

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    Probably because you're not a guy. Guys seek credentials from those who have credentials. If you're anxious about your baseball skill you don't care a lot about the approval you might get from people who can't play baseball well, and you don't seek it out. But it would mean a heck of a lot if some major-leaguer "validated" you. It's a guy thing.
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    Ah, thanks, it's been bugging me for a while. Being a boob-bearing mammal I didn't have a chance.
     
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