I am confused and need to get some women's opinions. I am a happy married man with and average size penis just under 6.5" long and medium thickness. Becasue I am a guy I always have obsessed about my cock and wish it measureed up to the hung guys here. Believe me I don't have one single gay bone in my body but there is something about looking at huge cocks that makes me wish I had one. My wife and I have great sex and are very open about things. She has plenty of toys and gets herself off all the time which I think it hot. I also have no problem masturbating in from of here and we often talk about sex very openly. I also have a penis pump and enjoy pumping it up nice and thick because of my size inferiority complex. And for those of you who don't think it works...it does..at least for a few hours of fun. The other night when we had sex after I had been pumping for a while, I kept trying to getting my thicker penis into her and she said it hurt and it took a while to ease in. Believe me with my size that comment hasn't been made before. We had sex and I could definately tell she was a bit uncomfortable but we both got off. We talked for a bit after sex and I talked to her about my cock and how I wish it were bigger. She said that she didn't want it bigger and that it was the right size. We also talked about how she masterbates and she said she uses her vibes and fingers her clit and never slides the vibe or her fingers in. I think she uses 7" ones. So I guess I am confused. When most women masterbate do you just rub your finger on your clit and don't usually put anything in? Do most girls even like a bigger cock? My wife says she usually can come 3-4 time when we have sex. I can last long and we bang hard but I have always felt subconcious about my size and inadequacy. I was really shocked to hear her say my thicker cock hurt her a bit. Quite, honestly it was a bit of a turn on. I just have never felt I had enough cock for her. So ladies what can you help me make of all this? And is it kind of a myth or lie about big cocks that all girls crave them? Us guys are obsessed with them I think and I'm not sure now if girls even need them since my wife usually just rubs her clit! Ideas?