at one point i realized that i get hit on by married men. i couldn't understand it. for me it's black and white. gay, single, want to be with gay single guys. then i woke up to the real world. there are bi guys and there are gay married guys (i suppose). i don't hit on nor flirt with straight (str8) guys but still bewildered why str8 married guys hit on me. worse, so clueless when it comes to being hit on. it takes a while to realize what's going on and then its too late. one married guy would always ask me about tube steak. did i like tube steak? i didn't know what he was talking about and told him that i had never heard of tube steak. he just laughed. later it hit me - tube steak = dick. that's why he kept laughing. someone else confirmed that is what he was talking about. then another guy asking me to cook him breakfast. why would he ask me to cook him breakfast? it made no since for me to cook and bring a str8 coworker breakfast. a friend told me that meant that the guy wanted to have sex with me. i was like how did you get that from him asking me to cook him breakfast? as you can see i'm a bit slow in the flirting area. duh! and still don't understand why str8 married men hit on me. your thoughts?