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Confused Str8 Men Hitting On Gays
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It gives the situation a different context if they do it when there's no-one else around.I got the idea that they were playing to an audience - trying to give their workmates a laugh.
Closet gays end up getting married because of family/peer pressures.If that's the case with these guys it's still never a good idea to mix work with pleasure.
I like yer thoughts there. many men have a black and white approach to what makes a man str8 or gay.
Hey bigmix,
Thanks for sharing your story, it was very interesting to read. I have been in a similar position myself ( sharing a room on a sales trip away with the boss) and yes it's very uncomfortable to have someone hit on you when you are not interested. It is hard to know what to say or do.
The difference being,I am Gay and my Boss was Gay & knew that I was, and therefore assumed that I was keen to play around. Nothing could have been further from the truth. Just because I'm gay doesn't mean I'll root anyone, I still have standards. He continued to make advances on me at work, and eventually I had enough and resigned.
Thanks for sharing your story, it was very interesting to read. I have been in a similar position myself ( sharing a room on a sales trip away with the boss) and yes it's very uncomfortable to have someone hit on you when you are not interested. It is hard to know what to say or do.
The difference being,I am Gay and my Boss was Gay & knew that I was, and therefore assumed that I was keen to play around. Nothing could have been further from the truth. Just because I'm gay doesn't mean I'll root anyone, I still have standards. He continued to make advances on me at work, and eventually I had enough and resigned.
my thoughts exactly!many straight guys are simply "childish"And find this type of harassment amusing.Its sad but true.Your co-workers ned to grow up.
This is sexual harassment my friend!You dont have to take this immature bullshit!
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men can only connect--
Very True, you can like someone, and not even WANT to fuck them,, it seems men really have a hard time with this,, Its so much easier for a woman to be friends with a gay man,, impossible to be friends with a straight man,, sex always gets in the way! Maybe men can only "connect" with someone if there fucking them ????
Very True, you can like someone, and not even WANT to fuck them,, it seems men really have a hard time with this,, Its so much easier for a woman to be friends with a gay man,, impossible to be friends with a straight man,, sex always gets in the way! Maybe men can only "connect" with someone if there fucking them ????
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Not ALL men, Sandra. Some of us are self-aware enough to know and enjoy our sexuality, and love doing something about it. Others (bi, straight, gay...whatever ya wanna call us) can only admit to wanting something they think is 'wrong' if they're drunk or anonymous.
To be honest, I'm very able to know when it's appropriate to act on my sexual animal and when it is best to keep it in check. I find little pleasure in having sex with someone who is not self-aware enough to slut it out with me, meaning that he isn't able to just enjoy what he feels about another man unless he's given himself the excuse that he's 'too drunk to know better'. I don't believe it anyway.
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How many of us males (str8, bi, gay) had some sort of sexual contact with another male as a youth. If I remember right by the time of my first time with another guys hand stroking my cock (pre teen) and mine stroking another till the time I went into highschool, I had at least got stroked by at least 6 or more guys (and some other activity with others). This number may be a little high for some and a little low for others, but most of us have found ourselves in this situation. This continued in highschool for me and when I have seen some of these guys after becoming a adult, almost all of these guys were married and considered themselves as str8 as one can get (and have been married myself). How many of these guys would like to try this again or even want to take it a little further without anyone knowing they had done this in the past ? I am not surprised at all when a married male is trying to let me know that he would like to have more than just a beer. My thought is most are just curious enough to want to see what it would be like now.
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I have straight friends that will flirt.. I think its something like.. well, it makes them feel good to appeal to even a man. I dunno
PacificFive Oh, I can see why straight guys would flirt with you. After all you're an attractive guy. I'd flirt with you too! even though you're not into girls. It's just a fun thing to do for either gender. Sorry for being so honest! :biggrin1:
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Not ALL men, Sandra. Some of us are self-aware enough to know and enjoy our sexuality, and love doing something about it. Others (bi, straight, gay...whatever ya wanna call us) can only admit to wanting something they think is 'wrong' if they're drunk or anonymous.
To be honest, I'm very able to know when it's appropriate to act on my sexual animal and when it is best to keep it in check. I find little pleasure in having sex with someone who is not self-aware enough to slut it out with me, meaning that he isn't able to just enjoy what he feels about another man unless he's given himself the excuse that he's 'too drunk to know better'. I don't believe it anyway.
Well,, all i can say is,, your a better man than most, sounds like you have boundaries and are pretty healthy :biggrin1:
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I think so, Sandra. Comes from a looooong life of mistakes and (hopefully) learning from them. And thank you for the comment!:smile:
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I can't even count the number of straight male friends who have said, either in a lucid moment or drunken state, "Onan, if I were gay, I'd want to be with a guy like you."... Arrrggh... great compliment but fruitless for me... especially since, usually I have a much closer friendship with their wives, than with them and would not risk ruining that.
And then, just like the OP's naive experiences, I have so many memories of missed opportunities with presumably straight guys that were dropping hints that I was too dumb to pick up on.
"Gawd, my shoulders ache.... wish I could get a massage..." ... and the like!
Onan
And then, just like the OP's naive experiences, I have so many memories of missed opportunities with presumably straight guys that were dropping hints that I was too dumb to pick up on.
"Gawd, my shoulders ache.... wish I could get a massage..." ... and the like!
Onan
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Some days, I can be soo bad! Today is special for me and its the first time in nearly 10 days that I've had the day off. Went to the guy early this morning and after 2.5 hrs of resistance training, showered and put on clean gym clothes: white Nike sleeveless form fit shirt, loose but short Nike gray shorts and Nike ankle socks. Also left my left nipple ring in. Off to the local grocery store and stopped by the Starbuck's at the entrance before just taking my time to shop. In the 40 minutes that I was in the store before checking out, 2 guys approached me asking if I knew what aisle such and such was in. Another bumped his cart into mine, apologized and started talking football, yesterday's and today's games. The single guys weren't the funny part. I caught at least four guys, all of whom appeared to be str8 as they were with wives or gf, making direct, repeated and prolonged eye contact with me.
