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So i play Aussie rules. Quite a few hot guys and shower together lol. Anyway there is one guy, who i have an insane crush on! 1year and a bit of not stop thinking about him. We talk and snap and chat usually when we at training for footy or cricket. We get along, when drinking we muck around amd shit, even just hugs and cheek kisses lol. He has showered naked in lockerooms but we are different grades so never get to shower with him, which sucks.

I know he thinks of me as a friend but he has never said anything more.
Well since COvid 19, he has lost his job, uni from home. We have spoken a lot more. Like 5 days straigh texting back and forths, talking about anything. I was in shower and jokingly showed glimpse of penis when doing a silly snap.

Next day as part of our chatting, we talked about sending, he calls dodgy snap.
I jokingly said im sure you've sent, and
he said he has.
I jokingly said never sent to me.
He said doesnt take phone in the bathroom,
i told him poor excuse.
He replied youre tempting me
I said do it
A few more back and forwards , me saying u twidted my arm to have a drink in shower only fair i twistt yours.
I eventually said someone has to keep their word in the friendship,
Which he replied i will take my phone, just for you xx.
He has a shower later at night, shows shower,
I said my was more dodgy lol
He sent back still in shower, then two snaps of his dick.
Cant remeber what i said but he asked if i wanted more dodgy snaps, and then sent through a snap of him full body nude with face.
We keep talking and as normal, which is awesome cause i really like this guy.

The guy has a girlfriend so im a little but confused on what we have going on.
Is it just fun for him, or is there apart where he might like me?
 

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I think he likes you. He is flirting back at you. I don't know of any straight guy that sends nude pics to his friends. Think about it? So he has a girl..i think he is doing a bit of exploration of his own. Keep flirting, feel free to be a little more bold. I don't think there will be any misunderstanding. My only reservation is wheather he is in a committed relationship with the girl.
 

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Him having a girlfriend sounds dangerous lol.

Back when I was whee young lad. I was engaged with a guy that I thought was single but actually had a girlfriend and a daughter. To keep the story short she found out and instead tried to attack me and not her boyfriend. I'd be careful. To answer your question I think he's curious.
 

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So we sent nudes again, he sent three snaps of his dick and him grabbing it and shit but not hard, maybe little semi in last one. I chanced it sending a cumming vid. We have joked about it before as i do it in shower and he doesnt, he likes short showers. We call it release work. In the cumming vid i wrote release work satisified. He sent a snap all dressed saying that was satisfying to watch. But then he didnt talk much and didnt say goodnight like he has the last week. He barely spoke today so thought things were going south. It seemed weird and like he didnt want to chat, i kmow he has uni assignment due and was worried about that. Anyway talked abit more at night, and he sent a nude after his shower, grabbing his dick and tugging it a couple times was a semi but not hard.
We talked a little at night before he seen me on messenger but didnt reply. And hour later he messaged apologising for not replying casue he hates when it happens to him. I pretended to be annoyed, and he apologised again and again.

Then he messages do you want a dodgy (nude) as a sorry gift. I played it off saying it was a joke and im not mad. A few mesages and i jokingly said wheres my dodgy with , he said coming and sent a nude of his hard dick and him grabbing it. Then a few messages before going to be saying i will talk to u tomorrow xx.

Like im on some kinda rollercoaster of emotions. I just wanna grab and hug and kiss him. Like im loving the nudes and seeing him naked, never ever thought it would happen but i hope i dont lose the friendship.
He is still with his missus so not sure if he thinks this is mates been mates or not. Ive always thought we had a connection. He said we are clicking real well with life.

Idk maybe its cause we arent seeing each other at training and the world is just staying at home.
 

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Firstly, I love Aussie Rules. Are you a Crows or Power supporter?

The situation seems to me like the guy is stuck in the house and having a bit of fun. When you’re down you’re more likely to do stuff that you normally think is risky. He probably also reckons this won’t get back to his gf, so won’t change the relationship.

If you try to take it further, especially in person after this, I suspect it’ll weird him out, he’ll back off and you have the potential to lose a friend.

On the other hand, give it a few years, and he might join the Adelaide swinging scene. It’s the dullest city in Australia, but there’s a fair amount of sexual shenanigans under the surface.
 

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Firstly, I love Aussie Rules. Are you a Crows or Power supporter?

The situation seems to me like the guy is stuck in the house and having a bit of fun. When you’re down you’re more likely to do stuff that you normally think is risky. He probably also reckons this won’t get back to his gf, so won’t change the relationship.

If you try to take it further, especially in person after this, I suspect it’ll weird him out, he’ll back off and you have the potential to lose a friend.

On the other hand, give it a few years, and he might join the Adelaide swinging scene. It’s the dullest city in Australia, but there’s a fair amount of sexual shenanigans under the surface.

He did say that he will eventually send a cumming vid! So im not sure what he thinks. We might going running together so be interesting if we do what it woukd be like in person. Cause we were are together like he wants to touch me and stuff but idk its hard to explain. Like last time we were together before the virus he patted me on the bum at footy thing and gave a cheeky smile. We were sit next to each other he spreads his legs touching mine. He was walking back to oval, i said wait up ill walk with first gotta go toilet amd he followed into toilet. Urinals on two walls so couldnt stand next and it was before we sent nudes.

Honestly believe he has to have some type of feelings but not sure what level. I just wonder if he and the gf break up what it would be like.
 
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Yeh there ain’t no straight guy I know who would do this, clearly he’s into you to some degree. Just don’t make any moves whilst he’s with his gf and when they break up then make a move
 
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I didn’t meant it to come off like that. I was still half asleep when I made the post, I should’ve put IF I’ll admit

Well she threaten to dump him last week cause he dont buy things, said they fight pretty regularly! So i wouldnt be surprised if they broke up!
 
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Well she threaten to dump him last week cause he dont buy things, said they fight pretty regularly! So i wouldnt be surprised if they broke up!

perhaps when was more appropriate than If then haha

but even more so wait and see what happens. If they do then wait till they’re over cos by what you say if you didn’t wait she may turn very nasty haha
 
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Yeh that ain’t no straight guy stuff he clearly wants to do something so just wait and see what happens with his girlfriend. Then if they break up see if he makes a move, or try to make the move yourself
 

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So tonight we chatting. I help coach his younger brother and have made the threat, jokingly that id punch him if he hurt him.
He was saying youre gonna have to punch me.
I said do u want me to hurt
Him. Well thats rules
Me. Maybe have to hug
Him. Social distancing, then nah i dont mind
Me. Alright kisses would that stop u.
Him. Kisses would be weird, though ive kissed a guy before, pole, amd tree.
Me. So kisses or maybe dodgy snap (nude) every time u hurt ya brother.
Him. I dont know what to choose, all really bad.
Me. Haha they that bad, ouch.
Him. Bit of sarcasm, not bad at all.
Me. So they wouldnt stop u.
Him. Idk, depends if brother pisses me off.
Me. Haha so punch, hug, kiss amd dodgy snap everytime u hurt him.
Him. Yep, should worl both ways here. If brother touches me i punch, hug, kiss amd dodgy snap you.
Me. Fiar enough, thats the deal.
Him. Ah beautiful, game on.

Then jsut asked he gonna do a cheap punch for all that he said tomorrow.
Him. Ah been a pleasure today like always, night legend xxx

Plus we sent some nudes when we showered. Him zoomed into his body and then looking up him sitting. See his dick and balls and cute face xx