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Discussion in 'Show Off' started by averageman7, Dec 22, 2005.

  1. averageman7

    averageman7 New Member

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    Is it gay or bi to jack someone else off why they are jacking you off
     
  2. GoneA

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    what's the difference between an orange?

    averageman, that doesn't designate you as either one.
     
  3. regularguy

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    I really don't know.......but I do know you shouldn't feel bad about it. At my health club, there are tons of married guys who jack each other off in the sauna and don't have any other man to man contact. Some people just enjoy that. I did it once.
     
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    I really don't know.......but I do know you shouldn't feel bad about it. At my health club, there are tons of married guys who jack each other off in the sauna and don't have any other man to man contact. Some people just enjoy that. I did it once. I never realized how spongy the penis feels until I felt someone else's.
     
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    No it's not gay, it's called mutual masturbation.
     
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    Male bonding, fraternity, brotherhood, family of man. It's a unique form of male intimacy that really doesn't define or impose labels on either party. Men understand what men like and have the ability to give the gift to one another, if they are evolved and comfortable enough about themselves. It is warped views of society that makes this wrong.......not the men involved.
     
  7. Dr Rock

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    who lives in the east 'neath the willow tree? Sex
    actually fellas while i dunno about "right" or "wrong", it does seem pretty gay to me. I can only speak for myself, but i'm reasonably sure i wouldn't be interested in jerking off a guy i didn't find sexually appealing.
     
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    You're gay if you enjoy sex (any kind) ONLY with men.
    You're bi if you enjoy sex with men and/or with women.

    Enjoy whatever turns you on.:)
     
  9. mellowmal

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    It's late at night, and so this might not come out the way I mean it.. but there are times when I feel bad for guys because of the pressures society puts on you.

    As a woman, if I want to touch another woman (even if it's totally non-sexual), it enhances my bedroom mystique for whoever else I might sleep with. If a guy so much as thinks about touching another guy, he gets hit with labels that hurt, from society or from that part of society that's been burned into our own minds. (And if he is gay and follows through to meet his needs, well.. the world's still too full of horror stories about what happens when that news hits the mainstream.)

    Touch who you want to touch, as long as there's consent and everyone's the appropriate ages so nobody ends up in jail. Be smart about it and safe about it and careful about it - but don't let society close off an avenue for fun and exploration. Touching another guy doesn't "turn you" gay any more than touching the counter in McDonalds would "turn you" into a hamburger. If you weren't the hamburger before you touched, you ain't gonna be after.

    Or so sayeth this sleepy old lady.
     
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    HsHung0788 said it right only you can know if your gay well unless you are HSHung0788 an wear sunglasses like that talk about FLAMING babe your a hottie but damn you must care your own extingushier for your flame ups
     
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    Good post.
     
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    Are you kissing while jacking each other?
     
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    yes... yes it does...
     
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