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I keep thinking of how to express myself without sounding stupid or coming off ignorant... So, long story short... I am a bi-sexual. Even though I am into both men and women, very rarely am I attracted to gay men...only straight men... why is this?! This has been a huge obstacle for me when it comes to keeping relationships and I feel as I am just leading these guys on for failure. I haven't had any relationships/encounters with a man in a long time ... I just set myself up for failure
 

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Its just your preference, nornal. IMO your practically straight since no straight guy will ever want to kiss a bisexual man and youre left with only females.
 

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I don't wanna answer to you, i don't unstand "the i'm was always attracted by STR8 people and not to gay"
 

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Like I said, I'm not trying to be ignorant, so if you're butt hurt I rather not hear what you have to say in the first place. Nate, I do agree it's some what of a preference, but when it comes to other bi men it's not as weird? if that's the right word I'm looking for.. I've been off and on with a great guy for a while and I just have to get to the root of the issue, if you will, so that I can make something out of what could be an amazing relationship.
 

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Im' not sure I think I funny understand you. . But, I guess I can say. . Not all gay men are (effeminate), I suppose you seek masculine gay men. . or masculine men in general. If you desire sexual activities with a man. . I would not suggest going after (straight) men. . it is a recipe for disaster. . Learn about the (leather) community. . the kinky BDSM people. . Leathermen, often are the butch masculine gay dudes.. and they would perhaps be the kind of men you would desire to play with, and these kinds of masculine guys would in turn play with you.
 

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Sounds like an attraction. You're confused, like most bi guys are -cough- so experiment and learn who you are.
 

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Like I said, I'm not trying to be ignorant, so if you're butt hurt I rather not hear what you have to say in the first place. Nate, I do agree it's some what of a preference, but when it comes to other bi men it's not as weird? if that's the right word I'm looking for.. I've been off and on with a great guy for a while and I just have to get to the root of the issue, if you will, so that I can make something out of what could be an amazing relationship.

no i'm not butt hurting, i find really ridiculus people that said they are attacted by str8 guys, first of all men are men, after this you can speak about the sexual oritataion as bi, gay and str8

I'd like to know how much str8 men or guys are ready to make an handjob, a blowjob or be fucked by an other man, if they are ready for this i have a bad new for you, they are certainly NOT str8 they are repressed gays or almost bi (in the luckly case) I also know a lot of people whom delcare themself as bi but they are not. I live in a country where some bi men said they are bi just because they had sex with a girl 20 years ago or in the wrongest case people whom declare to be bi but they are ONLY bottom.

@bottomboi we are not confused as you said, we don't like (i'm the first) sissy men, it is a bit different, I know that there are a lot of gay that hate bi because for them we are missed gay but I have got a new for you we like women and pussy too.
 

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I actually prefer bi men over full-fledged gays. Theyre more manly generally, quite a lot of them are tops, and some are okay with just getting sucked off.. Gay men tend to be more demanding lol