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Given some of the types of people I have read those men saying they avoid, much of the insecurity is baseless. Some of it is not. True micropenis is extremely rare. The one time I saw one on a potential partner I was so shocked I wasn't even willing to try it out, though if I found myself in that situation again I would give it a go to be sure. For me, at least, the rejection was based purely on ignorance; I had no idea a penis like that was a possibility. The sight of it was shocking, and there had been not only no warning, but an insistence that there would be no oral sex. I did not even know custom condoms existed, but I knew he couldn't use any of the ones in my purse. I'm fairly knowledgeable about sex and anatomy, and I just had no idea. I grew up playing classical music competitively, participating in a lot of orchestras, and getting into a lot of special programs for gifted youth. Because of that background, I have been put through hundreds of auditions. I am used to being scrutinized while surprises are lobbed at me. So, if with my background (knowledgeable, poised) if I was thrown for a loop and didn't know how to proceed, I imagine a person with more average life experience would have responded even more poorly. And, to be clear, I did not respond well. I was neither rude nor unkind, but my response was immature and could have been better. I do not regret not trying out that particular man, as he was a terrible kisser and didn't fully respect my boundaries. But that's a separate issue. My point, as muddy as I have made it, is that I think those who truly have small penises, have some real concerns, but there aren't many of those out there.

Most guys, according to statistics, have an erection that is average, or close enough that most people wouldn't know any differently just by looking. So why don't women like me run into more of them? Because they think their dicks are smaller than they are, and they have demonized their own bodies. The websites where you can read their opinions are generally full of speculative cry-babying. I have read from men who are virgins, who admit to never having even asked a woman for a date, that they remain single because no woman would have them. There seems to be a common fear of laughter. I don't happen to know any women who admit to laughing at a man because of his endowment. (Well, I laughed the first time I saw the biggest one I have ever had because he'd told me a joke hours before and I finally got it when I saw his dick. But that's a different story.) Most stories I've been told about humiliating scenes have turned out to be fantasy fodder. None of my friends report problems with average,even when they prefer larger, and the biggest size queen my group ever had couldn't even give herself an orgasm until a dude with average taught her to climax, so she also changed her tune. By the way, because of her experiences and porn, she thought he had a very small dick until I showed her some studies and told her otherwise.

Which brings me to my final bit of speculation. Porn is being received too easily at too young an age, and men are almost growing up with these expectations of growth that are never fulfilled, and they see themselves, artificially, as stunted, and not studly. I remember the first porno I ever saw was Debbie Does Dallas, and when the ballers show up in the locker room in the first sex scene, and get undressed in the shower, those were the first erections I'd ever seen. I laughed hysterically. Who knew they were shaped like some kind of fungus? What a riot! I stopped laughing as soon as something sexual happened, and I never thought of any penis as funny ever again. But while I started out on vintage porn which largely seemed to emphasize beauty, rawness, and the tabboo, I think a lot of men first encounter more modern porn which emphasizes erections, and emphasizes that bigger is better. This creates sub-conscious paradigms that no one can penetrate or shift for them. It becomes dogmatic. But I do believe it is artificial. I think there are men and women who cannot receive pleasure from small and average-sized penises, but I don't think they are in the majority at all, contrary to the inventive imaginations of many smaller-endowed men.
Debbie does dallas was filmed at Pratt Institute.
 
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=] OMG tell me about it. From my experience looking at d*ck pics on grindr and on this site, literally everyone is in the above average/hung range. Maybe this generation just has bigger penises?
 

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I don't think dick size is the secret to open everything in sexual life (that at end is what mind or sexual life is one of the important matter of the life),must exist other factors different than size involved or much more important.
in size dick concept Africa should be the happiness continent in the world.
and the must sad people due female are also affected
Chinese ,Indian ,Japan ect
 

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=] OMG tell me about it. From my experience looking at d*ck pics on grindr and on this site, literally everyone is in the above average/hung range. Maybe this generation just has bigger penises?

Or maybe this generation is good with photoshop ? :p

Well since LPSG, is made for big penis, its normal to find above average and big one here..
And anyways its generaly the big guys who are more willing to show off
 
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=] OMG tell me about it. From my experience looking at d*ck pics on grindr and on this site, literally everyone is in the above average/hung range. Maybe this generation just has bigger penises?

Hey Jojo,

That's what I was wondering. It just seems like big penises are way more prevalent than the average statistics claim. 7 inches is by far the most common size I run into and see on the Internet.
 
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So glad being here and realizing that I have a pretty big one. Great confidence booster.
 

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What if statistics were done to reassure men's population?

From my experience, locker rooms, showers with friends, my size is not as rare as it should be according to statistics. many dicks are my size soft, and I've seen even bigger ones, not just once.
 

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Besides grammatical crusades, what do you think about the topic?
Its not grammatical she not a man want to keep that clear thats all. i really dont have anything to add, what she said was perfect. other than that dont really care im well above average and have no reason to worry about anyone else
 

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What if statistics were done to reassure men's population?

From my experience, locker rooms, showers with friends, my size is not as rare as it should be according to statistics. many dicks are my size soft, and I've seen even bigger ones, not just once.

I agree with you. I've been in many locker rooms with many many naked men...I find that many high school boys I showered with when I was in high school and now as an adult - most soft penises appear to be around 4-6 inches...so when erect I think most are between 6-8 inches.
 

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I continue to be so confused about average size. Apparently the average size is 5.5 inches. Yet my experience is that I'm just a little bit bigger than that and yet I'm the smallest of the 20 or so guys I've been with. And significantly so. I think easily the range for the guys I have been with has been 6.5 to 8 inches. My bf, who is 8 inches, says it is his experience that he is average - that most guys he's been with have been around his size. It seems like the average size online is about 7 inches and even though many are suspect of that, it has not been my experience that guys exaggerate.

It's not bad to be my size. My bf loves it. But I still am so confused.
Average as I know is 5.5-6 inches. I can say one thing about men with average length cocks, they are pure sucking bliss! Average length cocks are way underestimated.

Nothing wrong with long either but I find I have a HOT attraction to average.
 
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The average is definitely that 5-6" length, 4-5" girth we've all heard about.

It is a little surprising when you're bigger to think about that, at least when you're straight and aren't exposed to other men's penises much.

If you think 8" is average, I have to suggest you stop measuring from the asshole. ;)
 

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What if statistics were done to reassure men's population?

From my experience, locker rooms, showers with friends, my size is not as rare as it should be according to statistics. many dicks are my size soft, and I've seen even bigger ones, not just once.
Did you take a ruler with you? Are you aware they don't all get much longer? Did you know you cannot extrapolate erect size from flaccid? Did you forget that gym showers are not random, but voluntary, and those afraid to be seen make sure they are not? The plural of anecdote is anecdotes, not data. ;)

Good studies use random samples, which means no volunteers to be in the situation. Good studies use rulers, not eyeballing from a distance out of the corner of one's eye during a stolen glance.

I spent just about every Sunday for four years at a nude beach, and just about every Tuesday for two years at a clothing optional swingers' resort. I made a conscious effort not to peek, but what I did observe does not match what you observed, and many more people (and from all over the world) fit onto a nude beach than into a locker room. Can you see why this kind of evidence holds extremely little water?