Confusion about average size

[AlteredEgo]

That seems so odd to me

That seems so general and unclear to me.

 

[lavalava]

Of course they're going to say they're 7" or bigger. What's stopping you from saying that too? Guys lie about their dicks. Look at the 10 inch $10,000 challenge thread. Of all the guys on this site who claim ten inches, not one......none, zero, zilch, nada....have come forward to prove their size. Bullshit, all of it.

And the bottom line remains....none of the issues you've been having are remotely caused by your penis size. Stop worrying about it.

yes but i am not talking for 10'' but a decent 7'' which i believe is more common than statistics claim ...I mean ,a lot more common...i think for women in their 20s anything under 7 is small for them ....

 

[JulieInNaplesFL]

yes but i am not talking for 10'' but a decent 7'' which i believe is more common than statistics claim ...I mean ,a lot more common...i think for women in their 20s anything under 7 is small for them ....

You need to spend some time at several nudists resorts and you'll find out 6 inches and LESS is more of the norm.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

.i think for women in their 20s anything under 7 is small for them ....

So much wrong here...

You're assuming that all women in their 20's have had multiple partners to the point of being able to analyze statistics on the subject of average size... And you're also assuming that size is a major issue for most women.

This thread is killing my brain cells.

 

[lavalava]

So much wrong here...

You're assuming that all women in their 20's have had multiple partners to the point of being able to analyze statistics on the subject of average size... And you're also assuming that size is a major issue for most women.

This thread is killing my brain cells.

you'll live

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

you'll live

I'm aware.

 

[AlteredEgo]

The first time I was ever in love, really really in love, it didn't last. He left me. The pain was so different from anything I'd experienced before. I hoped never to feel like that again. By the next day, I was still very depressed, but I was also very sexually frustrated. Very. It remained that way for a few weeks. Someone at school began hitting on me, and while I didn't even have much interest in getting to know him, I thought I might experiment with physical satisfaction without emotional closeness, something I'd never done before. I was very close friends with my lovers to that point. I made it clear that I was messed up from heartache, and that he was not to get attached to me, but that I was interested in sex, if he felt confident he could perform well. I told him I was used to partners a little older, with experience, and that I wasn't emotionally prepared to deal with a fumbling virgin, and I didn't want a new boyfriend. I was exactly as cold and blunt as that. He said he was okay with those terms. The sex was terrible, probably because I didn't realize how much pressure that kind of frankness would put on a young man, because... I just didn't know better yet. At the time I thought maybe I just didn't like sex without love. I resolved to wait for love.

A month later I met a guy at a sci-fi/fantasy convention. He was obnoxious, and he followed me around like a lost puppy. Creepy. He asked my friends about me. He described my cosplay to strangers and asked around who had seen me. I'm really good at losing a tail in a crowd, but every time he lost track of me, he chased me down harder. I have no idea how, but over the next few months we would become friends, then lovers, then best friends. Our love was the envy of all who one us. Strangers would tell us we we're sweet, and ask if it was our first date, even when we were years into our relationship. They'd tell us we gave them faith in romance. This was the first really big, deep, all-consuming love of my life. We became part of each other. We were Team Us. Despite all the horrible betrayals in the last year or so of the doomed relationship, we remain close, twenty years after the day we met as of last month, I think, after a lengthy cooling off period. I'd never fuck him or anything, but, no one knows either of us the way we know each other, including the people we married.

We broke up on a Tuesday. By Thursday I was talking to a new man. By the following Wednesday I was under him, gripping him with my whole body, screaming his name like I needed an exorcist. That time, it was satisfying, and I learned that I just didn't like the dude I first tried casual sex with. I didn't need to be in love, I just needed to be familiar and like him, he needed a great personality like everyone else I keep close. Oh, and no relaxed standards as far as appearance. High attraction only.

All of this is to say, a week before I fucked that dude I did something I had never dine before. I had never known of him. I never cheated. I just came from a relationship in which sex happened an average of 8 times a week. Amazing sex. Mind-blowing. And I was just as unhappy losing that sex as I was losing my cherished love, but he was abusing my trust, and he had to go. I couldn't replace that, but I could replace the sex, maybe, I thought. A week later, in December of 2004, I started fucking a dude I fucked on and off until he became a believer of flat Earth theory last year. I'm sorry, but I cannot fuck that. No. Jeebus. Anyway. A week, and he went from stranger to fuck buddy to friends-with-benefits for the next 13 years.

Ever since I met that guy I was totally sold on the benefits of casual sex. I've had heaps of fantastic and interesting experience. I've loved a few of my casual partners. I've broken a few hearts. I've experienced disappointment. But overall, it has been really good for me. So, whenever I have a breakup, I get laid as soon as possible. If I already know someone attractive, especially if they want to listen to me whine about my sadness, I just see if they want to get it on, unless there is good reason not to. I do this whether I caused the breakup or not. Now, a good reason not to includes if that dude is friends with my ex. I always go outside the circle. In fact I recently, after 13 years without contact, ran into my ex's best friend. I never noticed how handsome he was before. Attraction seemed mutual, but neither of us was interested in going there. We are off-limits to each other. You know. Because we're good people.

Your ex and best friend are simply not good people. That doesn't mean she cheated. Just as you saw her show up the night you saw, you'd have seen it before too.

 

[AlteredEgo]

yes but i am not talking for 10'' but a decent 7'' which i believe is more common than statistics claim ...I mean ,a lot more common...i think for women in their 20s anything under 7 is small for them ....

The next time anyone describes anything in terms of inches, compel them to put their hands on a table, palms facing each other, the distance apart they say the object is long. Get a ruler, and measure. Most people don't work with rulers and measurements on a regular basis, and are often not great at estimating.

Women also watch too much porn, just like men.

A lot of men, most men, in fact, lie about size. If that wasn't so, the studies that permit participants to just tell their measurements wouldn't consistently come out with a higher average than actual scientifically sound studies. Fact.

And again, don't ask women what average is. I'm an exception, not the rule. I have fucked A LOT of dudes. Like... a WHOLE lot. I have forgotten the names of more past lovers than most women take in in the first place. Most women have a tiny sample size, AND the smaller hung dudes are afraid to get out there and get laid.

 

[TinyPrincess]

i think for women in their 20s anything under 7 is small for them ....

Strange as only a dozen or so porn stars pass the 7" mark. But then we all know porn stars are chosen among the smallest guys. At least if they're in their 20's. If they're in their 30's it's a completely different tale...

 

[lavalava]

Strange as only a dozen or so porn stars pass the 7" mark. But then we all know porn stars are chosen among the smallest guys. At least if they're in their 20's. If they're in their 30's it's a completely different tale...

do you think that every man who is 7'' + wants to be a pornstar??? i am talking about 20's because i hooked up with 18-22 years old women

 

[lavalava]

The next time anyone describes anything in terms of inches, compel them to put their hands on a table, palms facing each other, the distance apart they say the object is long. Get a ruler, and measure. Most people don't work with rulers and measurements on a regular basis, and are often not great at estimating.

Women also watch too much porn, just like men.

A lot of men, most men, in fact, lie about size. If that wasn't so, the studies that permit participants to just tell their measurements wouldn't consistently come out with a higher average than actual scientifically sound studies. Fact.

And again, don't ask women what average is. I'm an exception, not the rule. I have fucked A LOT of dudes. Like... a WHOLE lot. I have forgotten the names of more past lovers than most women take in in the first place. Most women have a tiny sample size, AND the smaller hung dudes are afraid to get out there and get laid.

based on your experience 6-6.5 '' is small?? according to you ???

 

[TinyPrincess]

do you think that every man who is 7'' + wants to be a pornstar??? i am talking about 20's because i hooked up with 18-22 years old women

So women between 18-22 consider anthing less than 7" small. To be bluntly honest, most women IRL prefer less than 7". What you do need is experience and a sense of reality.

 

[lavalava]

So women between 18-22 consider anthing less than 7" small. To be bluntly honest, most women IRL prefer less than 7". What you do need is experience and a sense of reality.

ok fair enough

 

[soren10]

The funniest thing is that going through this thread I noticed that I was mentioned. It made me laugh a bit. Thanks @TinyPrincess

 

[sodominsane]

That seems so general and unclear to me.

Yeah ...oops not my best post....

I'll clarify.....the wiping out.....maybe contrary to other people's experence....but I love....like LOVE....wet....the WETTER the better...

But to each their own I guess

 

[693987]

yes but i am not talking for 10'' but a decent 7'' which i believe is more common than statistics claim ...I mean ,a lot more common...i think for women in their 20s anything under 7 is small for them ....

You all are wasting your time. He wants to believe what he wants to believe, so he can blame his dick size instead of things he actually could work to improve. He has made his own threads that went pretty much exactly like this one that he took over.

 

[creek47]

If you struggle to please your partner and you’re blaming dick size you probably need to work on your skills.

 

[lavalava]

oook ..... this conversation was going smoothly ...why do you have to be ironic now ....we just talking guys...relax..

 

[693987]

oook ..... this conversation was going smoothly ...why do you have to be ironic now ....we just talking guys...relax..

That word doesn't mean what you seem to think it means.

http://www.dictionary.com/browse/ironic

using words to convey a meaning that is the opposite of its literal meaning; containing or exemplifying irony:
an ironic novel; an ironic remark.

of, relating to, or tending to use irony or mockery; ironical.

I'm saying 100% bluntly that people are wasting their time trying to help you. You would rather obsess about the size of penises and leap to conclusions (based off of things you have said in your posts) about an ex than actually realize it was either one individual being shitty, or some other unattractive traits you have. I'm not being humorous, sarcastic, or ironic.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Yeah ...oops not my best post....

I'll clarify.....the wiping out.....maybe contrary to other people's experence....but I love....like LOVE....wet....the WETTER the better...

But to each their own I guess

Wet is only good to a point. Without friction, sex is pointless. There comes a point for me, and for some other women, where there is insufficient friction to provide any pleasure to either party.