Confusion about average size

[lavalava]

i know what irony means ....for christ sake it's a greek word ....i don't want to fight or something ,i am glad and thank you for trying to help me but the thing is i just wanted to know about other's experiences not to fight or something

 

[Jjz1109]

It’s mainly a guy thing to obsess about size.

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You just figured this out???

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

i know what irony means ....for christ sake it's a greek word ....i don't want to fight or something ,i am glad and thank you for trying to help me but the thing is i just wanted to know about other's experiences not to fight or something

And in 9 pages and 162 posts, virtually everyone's experience is that the average penis is about 5 inches. Your stubborn refusal to accept scientific fact AND real life experience of members who, again, have been more than patient with you is getting tiresome.

 

[geitjeshoeder]

Not being able to accept that you are 'normal' is one of the symptons of BDD (Body Dysmorphic Disorder).

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_dysmorphic_disorder

 

[amado]

I would say 5 inches is average. Here in Germany last statistic by doctors said 13 cm and Kings Collage said less than 13,12 cm. This is a large penis site. But most of my friends are around 11-15 cm.

 

[lavalava]

it is a large penis site ,with good people here as i can see....

 

[asterix]

who cares as long as yuou and your partner are are enjoying each other ,too much made of it .to be honest i ame on the site out of curiosity and jes there are some big boys out there and good luck to them but good luck to us all thank god were mot all the same ,how boring life would be if that were so .

 

[1050059]

The next time anyone describes anything in terms of inches, compel them to put their hands on a table, palms facing each other, the distance apart they say the object is long. Get a ruler, and measure. Most people don't work with rulers and measurements on a regular basis, and are often not great at estimating.

Women also watch too much porn, just like men.

A lot of men, most men, in fact, lie about size. If that wasn't so, the studies that permit participants to just tell their measurements wouldn't consistently come out with a higher average than actual scientifically sound studies. Fact.

And again, don't ask women what average is. I'm an exception, not the rule. I have fucked A LOT of dudes. Like... a WHOLE lot. I have forgotten the names of more past lovers than most women take in in the first place. Most women have a tiny sample size, AND the smaller hung dudes are afraid to get out there and get laid.

Well fucking said.

 

[soren10]

Well I said it a million times. Social, media and porn and the bigger sizes all 3 promote fuck with males minds. This has an impact on many that are not equipped as such.

 

[sodominsane]

Well I said it a million times. Social, media and porn and the bigger sizes all 3 promote fuck with males minds. This has an impact on many that are not equipped as such.

One of the greatest tragedy of the 21 century......911.....the 2004 tsunami....and this.....men worried about their penis size measuring up to porn and media.....

Jesus ...if you really let your penis size define you.....you got some issues

 

[soren10]

One of the greatest tragedy of the 21 century......911.....the 2004 tsunami....and this.....men worried about their penis size measuring up to porn and media.....

Jesus ...if you really let your penis size define you.....you got some issues

I talk about what happens in society. Not what happens to me.

 

[sodominsane]

I talk about what happens in society. Not what happens to me.

The "you" was a global you....

Maybe I should have worded " I a person let's their penis size define them....that person has some issues

I play a bit loose with my language....and since I use site for entertainment....I rarely proofread.....or even think much before firing away

 

[AlteredEgo]

So women between 18-22 consider anthing less than 7" small. To be bluntly honest, most women IRL prefer less than 7". What you do need is experience and a sense of reality.

I know I'm starting to. I never had a preference before, but I think my vagina is much less flexible than it was when I was younger. Instead of stretching pleasurably, it fucking hurts. I'm still not gonna say no just because it doesn't really fit, but it's so much harder to get pleasure when it's too big now, and unless they see me often, it stays difficult. It doesn't get easier. I'm happiest with average to 6.5" now. Just give me lots of girth. Because the other thing is I fatigue faster than I used to bearing down on a thinner erection. I'm still willing to do it, and it's still mountains of fun, but if I'm honest, I don't prefer it. Average is fine. Thinner is okay, but I just don't prefer it. Weird, to suddenly have a preference when I never did before.

 

[sodominsane]

I know I'm starting to. I never had a preference before, but I think my vagina is much less flexible than it was when I was younger. Instead of stretching pleasurably, it fucking hurts. I'm still not gonna say no just because it doesn't really fit, but it's so much harder to get pleasure when it's too big now, and unless they see me often, it stays difficult. It doesn't get easier. I'm happiest with average to 6.5" now. Just give me lots of girth. Because the other thing is I fatigue faster than I used to bearing down on a thinner erection. I'm still willing to do it, and it's still mountains of fun, but if I'm honest, I don't prefer it. Average is fine. Thinner is okay, but I just don't prefer it. Weird, to suddenly have a preference when I never did before.

Damn.....a always found you love of all sized dicks really cool

 

[AlteredEgo]

Damn.....a always found you love of all sized dicks really cool

My primary partner has a huge dick. I only see him once or twice a month. It's still fun, but it's really uncomfortable and hard to get used to. When I was seeing him a bit more regularly, and masturbating with a big dildo in between, I stayed used to it. But we broke up, and I put the dildo away, and now... I'm not used to it. And I don't really like to masturbate with toys. I prefer my fingers. Since I don't see him often, and I don't feel particularly committed to him right now, it seems kind of silly to make any part of my masturbation about sex with him instead of about my personal time. My other partners have above average erections, but they aren't huge. They fit comfortably. No extra energy has to go into being careful. They can just relax into me, and it's a better dynamic, if I'm totally honest. Don't get me wrong, if I didn't still enjoy my main dude, he'd be gone. We'd go back to just friends. I come really hard with him. We laugh, and snuggle, we talk passionately about current events, and speculate about the future. I love him, and I even love his cock and the way he uses it on me. I just wouldn't pick it if all a man was was a dick.

 

[deepvoicedan]

The largest multi-site research conducted shows that average is 5.2" long (bone pressed) and about 4.5" around. That does take into account countries where men tend to be smaller but also countries where the average is bigger.

Other proper scientific research has come up with similar results. In fact, sizes don't vary that greatly so most are in the average range with only a small percentage either smaller than average or larger than average.

Of course your own "studies" might have found different results! And some people of course, don't believe in science at all.

 

[hammer75]

Given some of the types of people I have read those men saying they avoid, much of the insecurity is baseless. Some of it is not. True micropenis is extremely rare. The one time I saw one on a potential partner I was so shocked I wasn't even willing to try it out, though if I found myself in that situation again I would give it a go to be sure. For me, at least, the rejection was based purely on ignorance; I had no idea a penis like that was a possibility. The sight of it was shocking, and there had been not only no warning, but an insistence that there would be no oral sex. I did not even know custom condoms existed, but I knew he couldn't use any of the ones in my purse. I'm fairly knowledgeable about sex and anatomy, and I just had no idea. I grew up playing classical music competitively, participating in a lot of orchestras, and getting into a lot of special programs for gifted youth. Because of that background, I have been put through hundreds of auditions. I am used to being scrutinized while surprises are lobbed at me. So, if with my background (knowledgeable, poised) if I was thrown for a loop and didn't know how to proceed, I imagine a person with more average life experience would have responded even more poorly. And, to be clear, I did not respond well. I was neither rude nor unkind, but my response was immature and could have been better. I do not regret not trying out that particular man, as he was a terrible kisser and didn't fully respect my boundaries. But that's a separate issue. My point, as muddy as I have made it, is that I think those who truly have small penises, have some real concerns, but there aren't many of those out there.

Most guys, according to statistics, have an erection that is average, or close enough that most people wouldn't know any differently just by looking. So why don't women like me run into more of them? Because they think their dicks are smaller than they are, and they have demonized their own bodies. The websites where you can read their opinions are generally full of speculative cry-babying. I have read from men who are virgins, who admit to never having even asked a woman for a date, that they remain single because no woman would have them. There seems to be a common fear of laughter. I don't happen to know any women who admit to laughing at a man because of his endowment. (Well, I laughed the first time I saw the biggest one I have ever had because he'd told me a joke hours before and I finally got it when I saw his dick. But that's a different story.) Most stories I've been told about humiliating scenes have turned out to be fantasy fodder. None of my friends report problems with average,even when they prefer larger, and the biggest size queen my group ever had couldn't even give herself an orgasm until a dude with average taught her to climax, so she also changed her tune. By the way, because of her experiences and porn, she thought he had a very small dick until I showed her some studies and told her otherwise.

Which brings me to my final bit of speculation. Porn is being received too easily at too young an age, and men are almost growing up with these expectations of growth that are never fulfilled, and they see themselves, artificially, as stunted, and not studly. I remember the first porno I ever saw was Debbie Does Dallas, and when the ballers show up in the locker room in the first sex scene, and get undressed in the shower, those were the first erections I'd ever seen. I laughed hysterically. Who knew they were shaped like some kind of fungus? What a riot! I stopped laughing as soon as something sexual happened, and I never thought of any penis as funny ever again. But while I started out on vintage porn which largely seemed to emphasize beauty, rawness, and the tabboo, I think a lot of men first encounter more modern porn which emphasizes erections, and emphasizes that bigger is better. This creates sub-conscious paradigms that no one can penetrate or shift for them. It becomes dogmatic. But I do believe it is artificial. I think there are men and women who cannot receive pleasure from small and average-sized penises, but I don't think they are in the majority at all, contrary to the inventive imaginations of many smaller-endowed men.

The 3 partners I have had all mentioned how small I was compared to what they had seen with one of them being my ex wife. The ex wife stated that one of the reasons she wanted a divorce was that we were sexually incompatible because of my small size. I’m inclined to believe her because she reiterated that long after we were divorced and there were other factors, money etc, but it was a serious issue. My current wife was a virgin when we married and on our wedding night after the initial push through I fell in. All the other women were loose to me, the ex was unbelievably large, but I thought because of her being a virgin the current wife would have been somewhat tighter. I would say that my small size has definitely negatively affected my sex drive. I would love to have sex 3 or 4 times a day with my current wife but because of the humiliation of her never being able to feel me there is no point. On the rare occasion where she initiates if I follow through with intercourse after giving her oral I usually feel dejected and 9 times out of ten lose whatever erection I can get them storm out of the bedroom. Usually the depression lasts 3 to 4 weeks , in the beginning very suicidal, and sleep on the couch for a week. If I could find the bastard that was handing out junk when I was made I’d slap the shit out of them. It wasn’t enough I am ugly and hairy but hung like a tic tac is the 3 strike. I have the mind just not the body.

 

[hammer75]

I am completely in agreement. I am not small by any means but for the longest time thought so. Until I became less sheltered about it and saw that I was actually bigger than a lot the guys in locker room. Lpsg has also helped tremendously.

I would say that some of the comments on lpsg has helped, but if you’re not big enough for the partner you have it doesn’t matter. I wouldn’t care if I was 2 inches if it was enough to satisfy my wife. The problem is that I am nowhere near what she needs. It’s like the universe is laughing at me.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I would say that some of the comments on lpsg has helped, but if you’re not big enough for the partner you have it doesn’t matter. I wouldn’t care if I was 2 inches if it was enough to satisfy my wife. The problem is that I am nowhere near what she needs. It’s like the universe is laughing at me.

Based on your photos you're at least as long as average and thicker than average. I'm not inclined to believe you.

 

[1050059]

The 3 partners I have had all mentioned how small I was compared to what they had seen with one of them being my ex wife. The ex wife stated that one of the reasons she wanted a divorce was that we were sexually incompatible because of my small size. I’m inclined to believe her because she reiterated that long after we were divorced and there were other factors, money etc, but it was a serious issue. My current wife was a virgin when we married and on our wedding night after the initial push through I fell in. All the other women were loose to me, the ex was unbelievably large, but I thought because of her being a virgin the current wife would have been somewhat tighter. I would say that my small size has definitely negatively affected my sex drive. I would love to have sex 3 or 4 times a day with my current wife but because of the humiliation of her never being able to feel me there is no point. On the rare occasion where she initiates if I follow through with intercourse after giving her oral I usually feel dejected and 9 times out of ten lose whatever erection I can get them storm out of the bedroom. Usually the depression lasts 3 to 4 weeks , in the beginning very suicidal, and sleep on the couch for a week. If I could find the bastard that was handing out junk when I was made I’d slap the shit out of them. It wasn’t enough I am ugly and hairy but hung like a tic tac is the 3 strike. I have the mind just not the body.

Um... Firstly, you are not hung like a tic tac. You look like average length and above average girth.

If your wife is verbally notifying you that she is displeased with your size, she has issues. It sounds to me that it's not a problem with your size, but a problem with her pussy. I have fucked chicks that I've "fell in" and I'm pretty big. Some chicks just have caverns between their legs.

In reference to your other self loathing: Get in shape. Stop bitching about it. Stop eating like shit and stop being lazy.